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About kinkymasterandrew
DISCLAIMER: I am Niceguy989, but haven't been online in a while due to various issues, including the pandemic...just didn't seem safe to do stuff with that going around. But that account has been locked due to the passage of time. You can see my previous journal entries on that profile if you'd like, but the rest is fairly similar.
OPENING: Hi, I am pleased you are reading this, it shows dedication and intelligence, both are qualities I hold in high regard. My name Andrew, nice to meet you.
MY PICTURES: I only have this picture up due to privacy concerns but have many available upon request.
MY APPEARANCE: I live in Duluth, Minnesota; I am drug, disease, tobacco, alcohol, and caffeine free but you do not have to be; I stand about six feet, two inches, (188 cm) tall and weigh an athletic 175 pounds (79 Kg). My hair is blond and my eyes are blue. I have no children and have never been married but look forward to changing that. I am legally blind and suffer from depression but I try not to let them stop me from living a full life; my inbox is open to all questions, so feel free to ask whatever you might be wondering.
MY PERSONALITY: I am a fairly well-educated accountant who maintains a healthy connection to my family and community while keeping some aspects of my life private. In my spare time I read, keep up with the news, exercise, rock-climb, practice the martial arts, watch tv, read, watch almost any type of movies, and misuse the awesome power of my computer for personal gain and petty entertainment like video-games. I'm a big fan of horror, fantasy, sci-fi, and comedy, but I am not limited to only those. People say I'm patient and goal-oriented and I think that helps in this lifestyle, specifically in the beginning where I prefer getting to know a person before anything too serious happens. I tend to take things slow in the beginning, many questions and answers and eventually leading into a meeting. I'm open to almost any sort of new experience and don't mind taking a few steps in the wrong direction just to make sure it really is wrong for me; meaning if you want to try something, chances are I'm game, at least for a few tentative tries. I'm not a very talkative person, (so you know this is a chore for me) but I'll do my best to let you know what's on my mind and won't lose my temper easily, so be yourself and enjoy your stay. The last thing I should mention here is that I am a friendly person, so if you write, I'll reply because that's the kind of person I am and I expect the same from you.
MY HISTORY: When I was young, I knew something was different about me and how I viewed love and sexuality. I have never been abused, emotionally, sexually, or physically and will not hold it against my partner if that is in her background. The first few exposures I've had to the lifestyle came in the form of movies, not dirty movies, just movies that used such occurrences as comedic situations. Years later, on the wonderful internet, I came across information sources like this one which lead me to my first real-life encounters. My years in the scene started me off at a very young age. Those experiences, while usually unsatisfying, taught me a great deal. Eventually I met a nice top who was interested in exploring her sub side, after several years we parted ways; we still keep in touch, as is my preference with almost everyone I share so much with. It is not my intention to earn points, get a nice tally going, or break a record for number of partners (but it does sound tempting now that I think about it, but that is not my primary concern here) I am looking for people who are willing to try new things, expand their horizons, and be pushed mildly and reasonably.
RELATIONSHIPS: I consider myself thoughtful, genuine, creative, safe, sane, and nice guy; I am not a bully, I am not a monster, I am just a nice guy who is looking for a nice girl interested in an alternative type of relationship, particularly one with an open understanding of control dynamics. I am not saying I plan to keep you in my basement and use you for sex and nothing else, (if that is what you want, we can talk) but that is not what you would be forced into or what would be expected of you. Think of it like a traditional old-fashioned relationship, you follow my lead, you can have a vote, but I have ten, you can have an opinions and speak your mind, but I decide what happens and what you do in most aspects. We can still do fun things, and I plan to, I just want a relationship without all the petty power struggles and sniping that seems to happen in other relationships; look at the business world or the armed forces, they all have clearly defined ranks because infighting can destroy even the best group of people. I do plan to whip you when you misbehave, or when I feel like it, but I will always consider your thoughts and needs. I'm very interested in trying new things, starting with the more mundane and moving to the extreme. Also the activities requiring larger apprentices like stocks and the like hold a great deal of my imagination. I'm open to almost any safe, sane, and consensual ideas, given enough time to prepare myself mentally and do adequate safety research. Please note: although I mention it in this profile, willingness to participate in a polyamorous relationship is by no means a requirement or even a strong recommendation. It is a nice idea, but nothing I am hurried to experience, if ever. If what I've described sounds interesting, let me know.
YOU: Before I begin this part, let’s get one thing straight, if you could only have one value, I'd want you to have honesty. Yes, I've been burned, and that's why I emphasize honesty. I want a partner or two with which to have fun in anything from casual to serious and long term relationships, but my interests tend towards long term or life partner relationships; prior experience is not a requirement nor are any specific physical attributes. These are a few non-physical attributes you should have or be willing to gain, order is based on importance: Honesty, communicative, kindness, warmth, self-awareness, open-mindedness, a good sense of humor, and an interest in their health (both mental and physical). When you write be sure and tell me what you expect in a relationship if you are comfortable telling me and it isn't already in your profile. I look forward to hearing from you.
SAFETY: I have first aid training, several years experience with this, and have had partners with various complications, so you can expect me to be safety conscious and able to adapt to any special circumstances you may have. If you would like your desires kept private, that is also doable, I too am a private person, so that is not a problem, even if we choose to publish our exploits, masks are great for that. Safewords/safegestures and other safety precautions are strongly encouraged, especially in initial meetings, but are not required if you feel strongly on the matter.
CLOSING: If that sounds interesting, let me know and we can talk. I look forward to hearing from you soon. Best wishes, Andrew |
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It's been a hard couple weeks. I figure most people here have had the same experience. I'm not surprised, just disappointed. Didn't mean to put anything too political here, but it's really hard to not vent to everyone I see. |
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So the "interests" has a "diversions" list...it includes "cults" and I'm almost certain this means consuming media (books/documentaries) about cults because it also has "true crume" but it also has "cybering" which I think means participating in the actiivity not reading/watching stuff about it...so to clarify, I watch documentaries and read books about cults...I don't want to start or join a cult...I want to be a bossy pervert with just one or two people, not a whole compound full, that sounds like too much work. |
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