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Female Submissive, 32, Cherry Hill, New Jersey
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Female Submissive, 24, Madison, Mississippi
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About Kinkymartha
NOT interested in; humiliation, degradation, dehumanisation.
Yes, I know the penguin isn't me. If we get along I'll send you a pic, but I have issues with having a face pic on an open-access site. For a general physical overview; Size 16/18, red hair, multiple piercings, mostly ears. I intend to get tattoos and more piercings, so I would advise that you find this attractive.
I’m poly with my bf, we’re looking for people to be poly with. For this we both have to get along with you, and we’re interested in people, rather than a list of fetishes. Obviously its good for kink interests to correlate, but were looking for long-term relationships.
As a sub I enjoy service and pleasing. I am however picky; I enjoy intelligence.
I love bondage (shibari or otherwise - I enjoy pretty rope but its the feeling of restriction I love the most). I'm a picky masochist; I enjoy pain when my pain is enjoyed in turn. Silent sadists are not my thing, hearing and seeing reaction of pleasure help push my pain threshold further.
What I love most is pampering the people I love, and being cherished in return. I have no attraction to abuse other than consensual pain play – which doesn’t extend to extremes. I do not wish to be told I am bad, or disgusting or a piece of meat to abuse. That is not the kind of submissive I am. I do not wish to be 'broken'. I am here to find a dominant, or other, who enjoys a gentler type of power exchange, one based on mutual trust, respect and enjoyment.
I am part of a couple, my partner is a top to me, but this profile is for me. I am looking for a long-term partnership for domination, keyword; partnership.
I can't do anything casual where I'm just a toy to be played with and put back in a box and ignored until next time. I submit deeply when I choose, but it doesn't happen overnight. I'm looking for a relationship (not mindless fucking and nothing else) where I'm valued and can show my full worth but this doesn't happen straight away.
My particular interests lie in;
Service, bondage, aspects of pet play (not relating to animal pet), spanking/impact play. I'm quite flexible on certain kinks so long as hard limits are respected.
I do have some interest in group sex - involving more than one man, so please, don't contact me if you're not comfortable with multiple men being involved.
Hard limits include;
Age play, excretion (vomit, piss, scat), extreme pain play, humiliation, degradation, dehuminisation. Anything involving animals and minors, or anything illegal. Feet - I have tried this but it wasn't really for me. Anal sex that's too rough - please have respect for the sphicter, I don't particularly want to have a prolapse. Anyone older than 10 years, give or take.
S/slashy S/speak; I refuse to decapitalise pronouns associated with myself simply by virtue of being submissive. I understand the intention behind it, but it is not something I find of personal appeal.
More about my existing relationship;
I am in a committed relationship with an amazing man. Nothing that happens in kink can possibly make me leave him. He knows about my kink side, he loves it in fact, but he's not my dom. He's interested in being part of my kink life, in any capacity, so comfort with men in a sexy way is very helpful!
He's not interested in cockhold, he's bi and willing to play together, though he doesn't sub. He would be a willing conspirator and partner in crime.
Although he is not my official dom I will be his 24/7 housesub, but he's willing to share this with the right person/people
If you cannot abide another person in contact with your subs/slaves or feel you can only do this with a restriction placed upon the time I share with my partner I ask you please not to contact me.
Ideally we would be delighted to find some similarly laid-back people for a poly relationship, with d/s as an aspect of it however it works out. We're great believers in compromise and finding middle ground.
Collar Me is a wonderful site, quite obviously. Seeing as this seems to be treated mostly a hook-up site here's a random list of what may tempt me for a hookup;
You can hold a conversation beyond "what would you let me do to you?"
If you're looking for a 24/7 sub (I will only slave for certain people, so other than that its sub) you're willing to share with my partner - and yes, you have to get along with him.
You understand that insta-bdsm action isn't an on-demand service. I have to TALK to you first, as a non-hormanally swamped human being first.
You have read the handy cheat-sheet and understand that "hate/hard limit" means it won't be of interest.
You understand that despite the stand-offish nature of this profile not all women who stand up for themselves are "bratty"/"fake"/"bitches" and are mature and strong enough to enjoy the submission of someone who doesn't sub for everyone, just the people who they choose. |
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