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Female Submissive, 32, Cherry Hill, New Jersey
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Dominant Couple, 36, SF bay area ca, California
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Dominant Couple, 42, Augusta, Georgia
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About KinkyHornySub
INTRODUCTION - I am not looking for anything casual! I am interested in a monogamous romantic relationship, with someone that I connect well with. I am a submissive at heart, however, a D/s dynamic relationship isn’t realistic anymore. What is more realistic is a vanilla day to day life, with a kinky bedroom life (so a T/b). I say this because with my chronic pain issues and working full time, that is exhausting and takes so much out of me, that I would not be able to fulfill being a submissive. I am straight, so I have no interest in women at all. While I can admire the female body (and do in pics), I have no romantic or sexual interest in women nor do I have any interest in platonic kink play with women. I have no interest in married or attached men, nor separated men. I have no interest in couples, in any aspect. I have absolutely no interest in any type of poly relationships. From when I started out in the lifestyle till now, I have never had any interest in going to dungeons or kink parties (either to watch or participate). I have no interest in having people join my relationship for any kind of kink/sex play. I’m only interested in 1:1 with my partner. I am only looking for a monogamous 1 on 1 LTR with a single never married or single divorced man. Prefer age with 10 years +/- of me. I prefer if you live within 2-2.5 hrs away from me. PLEASE don’t bother trying to message me for a possible relationship if you live further away. I have absolutely no interest in pursuing anything long distance, it’s not something I can mentally or emotionally handle. Also, I NEVER rush to meet anyone, if you can’t respect that, then don’t bother messaging me. If you have an interest in me, share with me how you would provide structure & guidance for me as my Dom. If you are interested in me PLEASE DO NOT send me a sexualized message as your first introduction to me, be more respectful.
ABOUT ME - I am looking for a regular long term romantic relationship with kink. I am a bottom (submissive at heart), I will not Dominate/Top or switch. Let me be very clear…when I say long term relationship, I am referring to a romantic relationship that progresses to live in and hopefully marriage. I am NOT talking about just an ongoing arrangement of regularly seeing someone long term for bdsm activities. Ideally looking for someone within 10+/- yrs of me and within 2-2.5 hrs of me. Yes, I am well aware that a committed LTR takes time to build and work on. I am not expecting to meet someone and marry them on the second date geez. I am just looking to go through the actual dating process not just get into casual hook ups. I am a BBW, 5ft, 230 lbs and have green eyes. I am not just “thicker”. Got a belly (from weight gain and from constant bloating with my IC and IBS). I eat a very bland boring limited diet due to my IC & IBS. My teeth aren’t the greatest from acid reflux breaking down my enamel and meds over the years, so that’s a big insecurity of mine as well.
I started to explore kinky activities my mid 20s. I have always been sexually submissive but just got into the lifestyle, learning about and exploring as a submissive on and off for around 10 yrs, through casual scene play partners to Doms with short term limited dynamics, along with everything I’ve researched on my own.
The top 4 are absolute must haves for me in a kinky relationship. I have had to remove several kinks from my list due to my worsening IBS and IC diagnosis. There are some kinks I have not ruled out completely because of my IBS and IC. I just moved them to soft limit list where with lots of trust and a caring partner it might be possible to try in the future if symptoms are very controlled.
KINK INTERESTS:
FOR ME...
1. Bondage/restraints - Only thing to take into consideration is positioning as to not aggravate my neck or back pain.
2. Forced Orgasms and Edging
3. Impact Play - I enjoy mild to moderate impact play. Not into canes or whips. While I enjoy some nice red marks and some bruises, I’m not into severe welts or drawn.
4. Toys
5. Wax Play
6. Sensory Play/Deprivation
FOR BOTH...
7. Watersports - Nothing in my face...neck down only. Mainly just urinating on each other. Not inside anymore. This is not something I’m into on any kind of regular basis. This is just a once in an occasional while thing. Not sure how urinating on someone will be now with my IC. Also I do not drink urine or tolerate it on my face, that’s a hard limit.
FOR HIM
8. Cock sucking/licking
9. Sucking/licking balls
10. Anal toy - I will do anal play occasionally with a small toy (not huge to stretch you). However I am not into full on pegging or using big toys
11. Urethral sounding - while I had to give this up for myself, I will still do it for you if it’s an interest
I do suffer from chronic neck, upper back and lower back/sacral pain 24-7 (for the past 14 yrs)...if that is something that you are not able to work with me through and work around it, then please look elsewhere. I also deal with chronic migraines, IBS and IC. I am not skinny...so you must like and be into a bbw especially one with a belly.
My HARD LIMITS - ask and I will provide a list
MY IDEAL PERSON - I am looking for long term, so I want someone who is looking for long term as well. If you are the type who is just looking for fun but ok if something more happens, then we aren’t a good match. I want a someone who is ready and looking to settle down. If you are submissive or a bottom, we are not a match. I need someone who is dominant in/out of the bedroom. Someone who is caring, nurturing, dominant, has sense of humor, loves cats. If you are married or attached to someone, or you are only looking for FWB or NSA, please look elsewhere. You need to be understanding of and willing to work around my chronic pain issues. Ideally I am into someone within 10+/- yrs of my age. Sorry but if you’re in you’re early 20s, you can be my child and that’s too weird for me for a relationship & if you are in your 60s+ you could be my father and thats too weird for me…both a turn off. I don’t do well with long distance relationships so ideally within 2-2.5 hrs would be best. I am looking to connect with someone on the deepest of levels. I want a loving relationship where we will be devoted to each other. A relationship based and built on trust, honesty, respect, loyalty and open communication. I appreciate an actual greeting from you of “hello how are you”, rather than “hey” or messages that say how are you or what are you doing, rather than “hru” or “wryd”. Communication is extremely important. If you’re going to be busy or going to bed…tell me…don’t just stop talking and leave me hanging. Honesty is extremely important as well. Do not lie. If you start lying to me while we are just getting to know each other, that is not good for a potential relationship. A long term relationship requires commitment to each other- emotionally, mentally, sexually, and every other aspect you can think of. It means sharing everything, good and bad, and supporting each other in every possible way. That is a true partnership. That, is a true relationship.
PSA: My health comes FIRST. Any kinks, sexual activities or non sexual activities come in second. Sorry to burst your bubble.
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What a joke, seriously!! Edited profile end of September and its now the middle of November and still not approved yet. |
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Still waiting and waiting for edited profile approval lol. If anyone sees this message, you can easily find me on other places to message me, like fetlife, with same name. |
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I'm still here...just waiting and waiting and waiting for re-approval of changes to profile. Don't recommend making changes because it takes way too many weeks. It's been several weeks now for me. Other sites do approvals to profile changes within 24-48 hrs. |
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