kinkyhorizons

As for my ideal person, that's always going to be a tricky one to define.

Curious, articulate and willing to explore and / or teach probably sums it all up as nicely as I can. I'm more than happy to chat with people that are new and curious, and equally love exchanging ideas with people that have been around the bdsm block several times already; although I warn you my curiosity can be terrible once piqued.

Through this site and others as you'll see from my photos I've met some amazingly people, some are friends that still get to see and play with, others became more than that over time but started in the same way and I think that's really what I'm here looking for. Kinky friendships with open-minded people and see how things develop from there.

There's an extract from a message I received on here recently, and I seem to get this sort of reaction a lot;

"I have read your profile (several times), looked at your pics, read your blog and re read your profile. I'm not sure whether I'm incredibly excited or scared stiff!! So I read your profile again and now I'm not sure whether to accept your offer or run screaming for the hills!!"

I think people see some of the things I've done in the past and think that's the level that everything has to be at to be enjoyable, which isn't the case. It's all about making some sort of connection with the other person, and when you do just click with somebody else and can spark of each others imaginations it doesn't matter if you are using several hundred pounds worth of electro toys and a vacuum bed, or a little bit of rope, a small vibrator and a dirty mind you're both likely to have an amazing experience.

And if you have read this far down, I'm impressed ; )