*PLEASE READ FULL PROFILE BEFORE CONTACTING ME, IF I CAN TELL YOU HAVE NOT READ IT I WILL NOT RESPOND TO YOU AND BLOCK YOU*
Where to begin: I am a 28 year old female who is a true switch. I will never be fully Domme or sub. I love both sides so much and will never give up one for the other.
Just an FYI my interests are listed in my profile so you should have a good idea of what they are if you actually read it.
What am I looking for? I am looking for just friends. I have found the love of my life and am not interested in hooking up with anyone else. And yes people do actually meet on here and fall in love!!! LOL If you want more than friendship please do not waste my time or yours messaging me. I do not cyber and I do not do online stuff. Friends ONLY!!!
I consider myself pansexual. That means I like men, women, TG's, Cross Dressers, and the list goes on. I look at the person on the inside first, the outside package is not the most important thing to me.
I will not tolerate drama, liars, or fakes. My life is not the most Drama free but I need no more brought into it. Alright, for now I end this and if you have read it then I gladly await to hear from you.
This is a link to an art project being done by a great friend of mine.? She needs letters that were handwritten by you or sent to you from a loved one.? Please check out the link and see if you can help her out with this amazing project :-)? Thanks in advance!!!
"Women are Angels and when someone breaks our wings.............we simply continue to fly....on a broom stick."
This months URNA T-Party is on the 23rd if anyone is interested.? It will be located at Club Diversity on South High Street in Columbus.? If you want more info hit up URNOTALONE.COM..........hope to see some new faces along with the old :)
http://.com/sit_on_santas_lap
I just want to jump on here real quick and wish you all a very Blessed Samhain tomorrow.? May your day be filled with Love and Light.
Blessings,
Starr
I just wanted to come on here a minute and let people know that as of right now I am going on a break for a while from here.? Life has thrown me a lot of curve balls lately and I need some time to clear my head and make sense of things again.? I will be off and on periodically to check messages and keep in touch with certain people but other then that I will not be around to just talk.
Starr
Hey all just wanted to post this info up here in case anyone is interested. ?
TPARTY on October 24th Slammers 202 East Long Street Columbus, OH 43215-1805
Any and all are welcome at the parties, it is not limited to TG/TS/TV/CD.........GG's, men, and admirers are all welcome to come!? If you have any questions feel free to contact me or go online to:? www.urnotalone.com
I got a very interesting message from someone on here the other day.? At first it really upset me because I do not like being called a liar, especially from someone who does not know me.? The more I have thought about it though the more I wish I had not even responded and wasted my time and energy on that person.? They were obviously a troll who for some reason or another felt they had to demean me to make themselves feel better.? At this point I actually feel sorry for that person.? They cannot be happy with who they are to lash out at a total stranger like that.? I do not regret defending myself on this but next time I know not to waste my time with getting upset and responding back.? Life is too short for drama and I for one want to enjoy this life I have to its fullest.
~Starr~
So,
have not written on here in a while so here goes...........First of all
the next URNA T-Party held @ Pyramid in Columbus is September 26th.?
Hope to see some new faces there.? If you have any questions about it
feel free to message me or go to the site WWW.URNOTALONE.COM? They are
really worth coming too if you are a T-Girl or just an admirer.? All
are welcome :)
I have found that I have a new hobby and well passion.? I have started
boxing and totally love it!!!? Have always enjoyed watching it on the
tele or even in person but I was introduced to some great people who
have been working with me and eventually I would like to get up to a
level where I can spar with others, and OK I admit it is erotic as hell
for me lol...........pain and pleasure go hand in hand with me on some
things and this is well at the top of the list right now lol
I would be interested to hear from anyone on here interested in the
boxing thing and located in and around Columbus.....know a couple of
people that are more advanced then me and always looking for a good
match..........so if interested hit me up.? I would also just like to
talk to others about it and get tips and stuff like that :)
~Starr~
Need to rant a bit so here goes, if you want to meet me and it reaches the point that I am comfortable with you and I ask you for information to give to friends so that I know if you kill me it will not go unsolved and you get an attitude over it then don't waste my fucking time.? I am a woman who is going to cover her ass and not take any chances with how things are in this world nowadays.? Everyone should do that men and women, you never know what you are getting into meeting someone even for a second or third time, you do not know them that well and until you do don't take any chances.? So if you want to meet with me I now have these requirements:
1.? I will tell three friends where I am going to be and who I will be with.
2.? I will want info on you to pass along to these friends (who will not share it) so that if something did happen they know where to point the finger.
3.? If you cannot respect that then fuck off and find someone else's time to waste cause I am so over other peoples drama.
Upcoming T-Party:? July 25th at Pyramid in Columbus.? Hopefully some of you will read this and get interested and decide to come and see what it is about.? The T-Party is hosted by U R Not Alone and is the 4th Saturday of every month.? It is open to any and all:? TG/TS/CD, GG's, and guys.? If you are not comfortable coming dressed you are more than welcome to come in guy mode.? It is an friendly atmosphere where you do not have to worry about anyone judging you.? I am looking forward to it as I do every month and hopefully will get to see some new faces there along with the regulars :)? If you have any questions about feel free to message me and I will answer them the best I can!?
~Starr~
Last night was the URNA T-Party in Columbus and I went with a couple of my gurls, it made my sixth party that I have been to.? The turnout was not the biggest but the crowd there as always was so nice and accepting.? They did decided to do away with the karaoke and Thank the Goddess for that lmao yeah was not the best thing, but they substituted it with strippers and OH MY *swoons* they were YUMMMM!!!? One of my gurls and I kept giving them dollars lol she would get down on her knee's and put it in that way, I was drunk but still not brazen enough to do that and well I did end up putting one in my mouth and letting him take it out of my mouth with his lol? Overall it was a wonderful night as always :)? For those of you into that sort of thing the parties are the 4th Saturday of every month at the Pyramid Club in Columbus, just go to www.URNOTALONE.com and the info is on there.
~Starr~
For some reason I am still amazed at people though I know I should not be.? Human nature is to want what you can't have then when you actually think you have it you no longer want it or you chicken out.? Yet does that have to mean when you tell someone one thing you do another or do not even take the initiative to inform them of your change of heart.? Quite frankly I get sick and tired of hearing oh yes would love to do this and would love to do that then when the time actually comes nothing.? It seriously makes a person wonder sometimes if it is worth it.? In my opinion it is not that hard to pick up a phone or even leave a voice mail message or a message on the computer, it just shows respect.? To make the person call you and be like well this came up or I just don't feel good shows that you do not consider their time important and have a total lack of respect for them and that to me is not acceptable.? Grow up, be an adult, and tell the truth.? Life is too short for bullshit and games.
Just a friendly reminder for those in or around the Columbus area this Saturday? May 23 is the URNA T-Gurl party at the Pyramid club, is always a great time, this party will make my 5th one.? Everyone is welcome, Girls, Gurls, and Guys.? So come on out to it if you got the night free, you will have a great time!
How do I love this lifestyle, let me count the ways. lol A bit corny I
know but a lil play on one of my favorite poems of all time. Last night
was the April URNA party up in Columbus and as usual I had a wonderful
time with wonderful people. Every time I am with my Gurls I count my
blessings, they are truly some of the only people that I can be myself
with and truly happy and in my element. Although one of my Gurls
couldn't make it last night and she was missed, it was still a blast.
The three of us totally threw the bar when we shanghaied the jukebox.
lol We put on Rob Zombie, Metalica, and a few other choices you would
not normally hear in Pyramid LMAO I think the kicker though was when
Stephanie put on a song by Ramshtein who are a German Metal band and
are defiantly an acquired taste lol But the real party did not begin
till we got back to the room. Amanda whom Stephanie and I both felt got
shorted last month was the star of the show so to say, she was most
assuredly not neglected this time lol although I do have to say I was
not neglected either, and neither was Stephanie. Although it can be fun
with more people there last night was just really nice to have only the
three of us, more intimate you could say and easier to make sure that
everyone had a good time I for one know that each month I look so forward to these parties and cannot wait for the next one
Just a friendly reminder that on the 25th of this month is the URNA T-Party!? It is a total blast and if you are a fan of all the pretty gurls on here or are one of the pretty gurls you should totally come!!!? Here is where it is at:
Pyramid Night Club 211 N 6th St Columbus, Ohio 43215
Opens at 7 and runs till 2 am, hope to see you there!!!
Over the years in my life there have been certain people that I have
not been able to let go of and feel the need to fix them even though I
myself need fixing. Would you consider this a major flaw in character
or would it be considered more a way of me not dealing with my own
issues and focusing on others as a way of denial. I pride myself with
the fact that I have come a long way in dealing with my past, yet parts
of it are sneaking back in there. At this point in my life I have never
been happier then when I am with someone (friends) who are also in this
lifestyle. My "vanilla" life has come to the point that I go through it
numbly counting down the days or hours until I can let loose and be me.
How do you balance all of this? How do you let go of those who are
bringing you down even when you do care for even up too love them? The
questions keep coming yet the answers are slow to follow.........
Blessings to you all!
~Starr~
alright peeps here is a link to one of the best songs ever, check it out!!!
Last night I got a group of friends together and we went to the Pyramid
Night Club up in Columbus, for them it was their first time there, for
me my first time on a night when it wasn't the URNA T-Gurl party. A
different experience but a blast none the less. Last night they had a
Drag show and Strippers and a DJ playing in between. I think I am
totally in love with that club, the atmosphere is good and everyone is
so nice, it doesn't matter who you are or really what you look like
they just let you be. The only thing I wish is that it wasn't so damn
far from me, but ehhh if that is the worst thing about it I will gladly
drive the hour and a half to go someplace that I know I can have fun!!!
Rest and Recovery, those are the two things I am searching for today.? Last night I went with two great gurl-friends to the URNA T-Gurl Party in Columbus and OMFG it was awesome, the bar was great, the ladies beautiful and I was totally drunk by the time we left to go back to the room for the after party lol? Last night I learned a few things bout myself, I am more sadistic then I orininally thought and that I love pain.? My limits were pushed last night by a close friend, she tried electrical play on me, along with a violet wand, clamps, and whips.? I have to say that the TENS unit she used on me was my favorite next to the whip she had and worked so expertly on my ass and back.? Never before had I had that done and it was so painfully wonderful that I cannot wait to have her work on me again at the next after party!? Although I went sub with her, my Domme side was strong last night with the others, the power and control was an instant rush, and I want to explore it even more now and become the best Domme that I can be :)? I find today though that I have totally crashed from the adrenaline rush last night.? Physically I am drained but emotionally I am calm and relaxed which is a wonderful feeling :)? For now I am off of here to rest and take a nap but if you are ever in Columbus on the 4th Saturday of every month the URNA party is then and I recommend that at least one time in your life you go to it and let loose and have a great time!!!
It still amazes me that when I get a new piercing how enjoyable it is
for me. The anticipation and build up watching the piercer get the
stuff out, the look of the needle and the clamp, the marking of where
you want the new hole, then he takes the clamp and I start to get
giddy, this time I got my lip done and when he had the clamps on and I
knew the needle was coming I felt this calm come over me and when I
felt the metal going through my lip peacefulness. No pain, no blood,
just bliss for a few split seconds, allowing me think of nothing but
the metal in my flesh. *Sigh* I think I am ready again for another one
lol and just got this one done yesterday, hrmmm maybe another tattoo
next instead.
I for one know that each month I look so forward to these parties and cannot wait for the next one 
