shakes her head as she thinks of the past few weeks..  

I really wish the men on here that say they are dominant..  i mean  the Dominant  type..  I wish you all would do a bit of reserach  before you  say you want a submissive..   to so many of us  true  submissives..   this is not bedroom games.  this is real life  and  how we want to live it..    at least have the balls to say you dont' know what  it is to be a true Dom.   that is ok  there are those that do  and an help you out....  bedroom games.. espeically when they are one sided  really sucks.. 

when we say what we  need..   well gee    that is what we need    do we like other things  of course we do..  sex is not  BDSM  sorry  to burst your bubble.. but it is not.  SEX is SEX  that is all .  BDSM is so much more..   even those in the Gorean life style   it is  still NOT about sex..  it is about need.  how one feeds the other..  sheese..   * tosses her hands in the air and shakes her head*...