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KilroyAH

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Male Submissive, 40, logansport, Indiana
Male Submissive, 40
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About KilroyAH

Let's see- I'm pretty much a total newbie when it comes to BDSM, but am looking to learn more about it firsthand. I've been introduced to it online (i.e., cybering), but nothing in-person. What I do know so far is that I'm looking for something casual, with friendship outside of scenes being the most important part.

Which side of being dom/sub I end up on pretty much depends on my mood, though I tend towards being subbish much more often. For my limits, consider anything involving pain or risk (more than being tied up, anyway!) as a soft limit. Hard limits would be any permanent or semi-permanent body mods (piercing, tatoos, scars), and anything like scat or watersports.

As for the non-BDSM parts of me: I'm working on getting into college this fall, and am aiming for a B.S. in Digital Entertainment and Games Design, up in Portland. Needless to say, I self-label myself as a geek, but take pride in it. I'm rather shy / quiet in person, especially in groups, but open up more once I get to know people. Or online, as well.

Hobbies: Gaming (Obviously!), mostly focused on role-playing; reading (Fiction, most any genre, though preferring sci-fi,); Anime/Manga (Just digging myself deeper, aren't I?); and programming. No objections to going around and seeing sights or to social events, so long as it's with good company.

Note: Profile likely to change 'soon', and a picture's coming. Really!

Some thoughts after work (Besides 'damn, it's hot') ============
* Why am I interested in this? Mostly because it sounds fun. That'd be the key word to keep in mind- I've got plenty in the way of responsibilities and obligations already, and more coming down the line. And unfortunantly, any relationship that's deeper than 'good friends' would load on more than I think I can manage for the near future (i.e., 3-4 years.)
* I'd been running through some possibilities in my head, and if I do wind up hooking up with a Dom/me... I'd probably be one heck of a brat. I'm pretty easy-going most of the time, but sometimes, I just -have- to be contrary. Especially if I'm getting pushed hard in one direction.
* This ties in with the thought above- in the event of meeting a Dom/me, respect and trust would most certainly have to be earned. Granted, once trust is established (admittedly, not the easiest thing), it's pretty much -there- unless something happens to take it away... Respect is a bit more in flux. Again with tying into being a brat- I'm almost certain that periodically, I'd wind up 'testing' whoever I was subbing to. And since I rather like friendly tussles (i.e., no moves intended to cause real injury,) ... *Laughs* Plus a 'revenge' type of scene sounds especially fun, too- So anyone else would have to be a good sport about the possibility of me winning.
* Subs. That'd be something tricky, honestly. For the first part, I'd need to pick up a -lot- more knowledge before I'd consider looking for any. And going with the 'casual' idea, well- It'd have to be an odd (from what I gather) sort of relationship. Sort of like reverse training. Though I can be rather creative when struck by inspiration, and have a bit of a sadistic side that I normally keep in check. And hey, it's now after midnight. I think my train of thought just ran out of steam. *Thud*
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