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	About kickable Hello, I'm a single man, 59, in the Daytona Beach area. I am a college graduate with a wide variety of interets. I'm a writer who enjoys playing guitar and singing. On the guitar I play everything from Dylan to Elvis, to folk, rock and old Country. When it comes to reading, I mostly read non-fiction, biography and social science, although I used to read a lot of fiction. I also enjoy movies, especially those based on true stories. I am well regarded by friends, colleagues and family members. By posting here I am hoping to meet a woman for friendship, companionship and more, especially a woman who is intereted in or sympathetic to some ostyle choices espoused on this site.

So, I was wondering today, which group would be the more enthusiastic ball-kickers, the women of Hooters or Wing House?

I am looking for a woman to do a short fantasy photo session. My thoughts are to take photos of her wearing a short skirt or dress, with pantyhose and sexy heels. I'll be taking closeups of the heels for possible use as a cover of a novel I've written. You would strike various poses for a photo/video, including kicking your leg, stomping and possibly striking a bed with a belt. We would agree on everything beforehand. I can offer $100 for the photo session.

Since I never seem to get any response on here from lifestyle Dominas, just professionals, I'm trying something new. I put a posting on Craigslist. In the posting in the men looking for women category, I'm seeking a female-led relationship. So far, I've gotten responses, but they've all been very cryptic. A couple of the responses have turned out to be the usual come-ons trying to get you to join a dating site.

What follows is a posting I put on Maxfisch.com in response to a question from Mz Fawn about scripted sessions.

Mz Fawn,
I'm not sure if the session I'm thinking about was scripted, but once, a Mistress I had yet to see asked me to write her my fantasy. Given the opening, I did write her a detailed scenario. She wrote back a short note saying only she would see me. Apparently, she shared a desire for my fantasy. The session, which was only my third experience, was a dream come true.
The irony about my fetish, ball-kicking, is that once it starts I am conflicted by both experiencing my dream and a desire for the pain to stop.
Usually, I don't request a detailed fantasy. If permitted, I will tell the Mistress my fetish is for ball-kicking. I also know I must remain open to the desires of the Mistress. I have had a sessions where the Mistresses embraced my fetish, yet pursued other play options. It is pretty exciting to be taken to other "places."
Finally, I have had role-playing sessions. We didn't follow a script. We did agree on a premise and she knew my major "fetish."
It is pretty exciting to write or tell a Mistress about my fantasies and desire. It's also exciting to hear from a Mistress the thing she likes to do and, especially, what she is going to do to me. Unfortunately, this seldom happens. Mistresses, I think, prefer to keep the session mysterious. I think She could keep the mystery, yet tell a slave before hand some one (or two) thing she's going to do.
For example, the expectation and challenge of knowing I will be required to submit to something would be very exciting. It would be a challenge not to chicken out. Perhaps that's why Mistresses don't set up such "challenges,'' because too many slaves would chicken out.
There is one thing I have always resisted, but know a Mistress could make me do. I often dream of being with a Mistress who took me to deep submission of her and made that taboo act a condition of serving her. Once she had set a patten or extreme domination, she would circle a date on the calendar and tell me I would submit to the act I oppose. Not only submit, but she would train me to perform this act enthusiastically.
Sorry for going a bit beyond the question.
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These past few months, I've had a dramatic turnaround in my health. I feel so improved that I'm beginning to test the job market. And, I admit, I'm also wondering when I can have sex and/or a Female Domination experience again.
Last week, I was interviewed by a woman I've worked with before about a job opening. She's very attractive and wore a snappy brown suit with sexy 5-inch brown heels to match. I wish she had told me she wanted to be not only my boss, but my dominatrix. She might have said my job duties would include submitting to her, especially for ball-kicking, ball-slapping as well as oral and toilet services. Her offer was low in terms of money, but would be difficult to resist if she also planned to make me her slave. She's definitely an assertive women who also wears sexy shoes. She has other women friends and aquaintances too. In addition to keeping me under the soles of her feet, she might want to break the ice for my submitting to her woman friends and colleagues. What if I went on an assignment to meet a woman who had been briefed on my desires, or even perhaps had attended a breaking-the-ice party with other women (colleagues, friends) who wanted to break the ice with me and establish themselves as Dominants. Awesome thought. I have to admit I'm tempted to ask her if she'd be my Dominatrix boss.
I have similar thoughts about going back to my former employer. There are even more women working there. What a thrill it would be to be told in an interview that my duties would include submitting to women. This announcement would be followed by a ball-kicking in the boss' office by several women in management.
Once again, I'm tempted to ask these women I know to be my Dominatrix bosses, colleagues and friends. But over the years I have dropped some serious hints about my orientation as a straight submissive. What would be more effective, more dominant, would be for these women to broach the subject and demand my submission as a condition of employment and a duty I must perform. Wow!

How I wish panty day had ended.
Well, I wish I had been with a girlfiend, new or old, helped her clean up around the house a bit and then sat together on the sofa.
We would have started making out, with her tongue exploring my mouth, her hands pinching my nipples. My hands would be rubbing her back and petting her breasts as my tongue and lips massaged her tongue.
We would be stripping down as action got hot. She would hold my head back and order me to swallow her spittle. Finally, my pants would be off and the pink panties would be showing. She would alternately grab and slap my balls through the pink panties, alternately kissing me with deep French kisses, her tongue thrusting into and exploring my mouth.
In time she would push me to my knees on the floor and scoot herself down, demading I give her oral sex, which I would do until she climaxed heavily into my mouth.

Well, I went to bed at 1 a.m., still tingling while wearing my panties. I was so excited, I couldn't sleep. So, I got up and read a book until the newspaper came. Then I made breakfast, read the paper and went for a two-mile walk in my panties. I felt really cool all morning.
Also, I was glad I bought a three-pack of panties, because the pair I was wearing was soaked after the walk. I showered and put on another pair to wear while I ran a bunch of errands; post office, grocery store, bank, guitar store for new strings and gas. I tingled all day. I really wasn't worried about discovery. No one was going to say, "Ha, you're wearing pink panties."
Still, it has been as exciting as I remember to wear female underthings. It would be cool to wear a bra. With my middle-aged man, man-boobs, I just might fill out an A cup, especially if I started taking GroBust and bought one of those suction machines designed to increase breast size. Yea, A-cup baby. But I'd probably need a couple extenders to link the bra around my chest. And thigh-high stockings, they are a trip and a half.
Wearing panties or pantyhose under regular clothes is a great way to cross-dress. I'm not trying to pass and know I couldn't pass. In my dreams, I might want to wear some sexy outfit, but I wouldn't look good. More often, I just want to dress like the women I know dress in their everyday lives. One confession though, I've always wanted to wear an all-in-one girdle. I need to lose more weight first. I weighed 298 in January 2009 and was 228 today, so I have a ways to go.
Wearing panties was a good and fun assignment. I've posted here on Collarme in the past, offering to buy a woman some new clothes if she would give me some of her cast-offs. And I'd clean her bathroom, too. No takers. This is really a world, it seems, for Female Dommes, Female subs and Male Dommes. Sub males have the lowest standing and least options. It's pro, or no. I do love the pro Dommes. I don't blame them for the way it is.
Thanks Mistress Patti for thinking up a fun assignment that helped ease my loneliness today. I'm still tingling and will probably continue to tingle all night.

I am a member of Orlando-area Mistress Patti's group on Yahoo. Her order for her "boys" is to wear panties on Friday. The order reminds me of training I received a few years ago while serving another Orlando-area Mistress, who insisted I wear pantyhose, or panties and garter stockings every day. The panties had to be pink, red or blue. Unfortunately, our relationship ended before the training went further. The next step, I think, would have been wearing a sanitary pad. I remember being nervous wearing the female underthings while I went to work, but I complied. There was something about wearing the female clothes that really felt cool. I felt closer to my Mistress. I felt more submissive to all the women I worked with during the day.
So, I'm planning to take part in Mistress Patti's panty day. On the way home from a baseball game on Thursday night, I stopped at a CVS store. I was hoping a female clerk would be on duty and was happy to see a blonde behind the counter when I entered the store. She treated me cool, but I think she signalled the manager, probably because I was wearing a hoodie. The manager, a middle-aged man, gave me a sneering look after I made my purchase and was leaving the store.
I found the aisle with the panties for sale very easily. Right away, I spotted a pack of three, Hanes, cotton, Hi-Cut panties. They looked really cool. I think my body remembered the sensations I felt when I first wore feminine clothing, because I felt excited. I wasn't sure what size to get. I was so nervous, I didn't look at the back of the package, which had a size chart. I wanted to get a size 9, to make sure they were big enough, but there were no pink panties in the size 9 pack, and nothing else would do for Mistress Patti, but pink panties on her "boy." So I bought size 8's. When I got home and finally looked at the back of the package, I saw that size 8 fits waist sizes 40 to 42. I'm a 38 waist, so I breathed a sigh of relief.
I put on a pair immediately. My body began to tingle and I'm still flushed in the chest, nipples and in my "manly" area. I'm watching a hockey game while wearing women's panties. So cool. All I would wish for further is an understanding, supportive female friend to share the experience.

Looking for a cute plus-sized woman. Give me a few of your old, worn, soon to be discarded clothes -= panties, pantyhose, bra and the like -- and I'll buy you new stuff. Spank me good and hard and demand oral worship.

A simple start.
I'll visit your home, if you're a woman who wants to play with some domination. Say the words "slave status'' and I'll disrobe and kneel at your feet. I'll tell you my likes, if you want, which include extensive oral service. You can tell me your desires. Show me your closet with your shoes and I'll definitely be turned on.
Where it goes, who knows?
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Attention shoppers.

Looking for a woman in the Daytona area who would enjoy a shopping visit to Target or Walmart to buy new shoes, stockings and bra. Perhaps a wooden spoon or fly swatter for spanking. Female companion would model clothes, kick me, spank me and order oral sex.

Nice dream anyway.

Today I find myself wishing I was with a woman who wanted to spank my cock and balls, and require oral service. It would be cool if she would put me in panties/or pantyhose too.

The company I work for is being sold. It's a very good, desirable and prestigious company. Part of me can't help but wish that a rich businesswoman -- one who is also a dominatrix -- would buy the company. Even better, somehow she knows about me and hires one or two Mistresses who havve trained me to work as supervisors. Soon they impose physical domination. Perhaps it's not totally out of the closet, but there are women who boldly talk about and bring about their dominance.

I found an old news story that struck me as funny.
Austraila was apparently facing a shortage of Dominatrixes as the country prepared to host a ruby tournament.
Leather balls indeed.

The house across the street is for sale. I can't help but wish some terrific Dominatrix moves in and really takesa liking to me. Of course,it wouldn't be too bad if the blonde who lives there would take the same interest. Three women getting divorced on the street.

I'm watching some hockey on television and thinking about this fantasy I have about being with a woman who dresses up in heels, thigh-high stockings, a bra and a hockey jersey. I've had this fantasy awhile. I think it goes back to a woman I knew a while back who was a super hockey fan. She was also attractive, intelligent and had a great personality. But her knowledge of hockey was amazing.

I'm taking some vacation time the next couple weeks. I'm tired and ready for a break. I wish I had a girlfriend, though. I'm going to hold out though. Ever since I heard about the erotic services on Craigslist I find myself checking the ads. I admit I'm tempted. But I don't think you can buy what I need. I deserve to be with a woman I want to be with, one who wants to be with me. I hope that happens. I thought I might find a like-minded woman friend here on collarme, but I have not really met anyone through this site. I don't really think a pro session is what I need either, although I would consider being used in a video. I've done that before. I told myself it was more of a friendship relationship. Most of the women here are subs and the few Dommes are either pros or inundated with male responders. Every now and then a woman responds to an e-mail, but not for much more than a message or two. I really did think I might at least find someone who wanted to play. It'd be nice to meet someone through this site, I thought, because I could bring up some of the exotic activities I dream about without the negative reaction of some vanilla woman friends. I've accepted it won't happen.

So, let's say I was fortunate enough to find a woman who embraced me and my fantasies. Say we made out, made love and explored female domination scenarios. Perhaps those realized fantasies included me giving her a rim job and serving as her toilet. Would she make love to me again? Would we kiss again?

One look at my screen name and you'll probably guess my fetish is being kicked in the balls by women. Today is a special day, so please forgive me in indulging a bit in my fantasy. Perhaps you're a woman who lives nearby has thought of contacting me here. Finally you do and at some point you invite me over. You want to make some aggressive moves, be in charge, dominate. You greet me at the door and show me around your place. Be sure to show me your closet and shoes. Let's have a drink then, make out a bit on the sofa, then take me into the bedroom, gag me, ball-kick me and make me lick your a--.

Let'shave a domination date
How about some help cleaning around the house, scrubbing the toilet, sweeping up or other chores. Teach me to be your slave. Do you have some old panties, pantyhose etc. that you want to get rid of? Make me wear them under my jeans. We'll go to the store and I'll buy you some new ones. Begin some disciplining of me. Tie me up, make me worship you. Make me understand how to serve you.

Vanilla reaction
The few times I've told a woman outside of adult entertainment of my interest in a female-led relationship, the response has been rejection.
I wish there had been more openness to at least some discussion.
What if we had talked about the pros and cons. We could have made a list of ways to enhance our relationship with the female-led focus. This might include everything from her realizing that telling me to take out the trash, or putting up a list of chores would be fulfilling for both of us. She might also like something like using a strap-on, or making me service her with a penis mouth gag.
What we have here is a failure to communicate.

Collarme Date.
Yes, I've dreamed of a date with a lady on Collarme, whether she's dominant, a switch or a sub who wants to play the Domme.
In the dream I show up at her house or apartment after we've chatted on line and some basics are understood. She gives me a brief tour of hour place, with special emphasis on her shoes.
We'll go back to the living room, start glass of wine, then start making out. She'll thrust her tongue in my mouth. We'll touch each other. Eventuall she'll start spaking my cock and balls as we make out. When she stands and a slaps my face, that will be the key to go to the bedroom.
She'll order me to take off my clothes I'll begin to worship her orally. She'll have a pair of pumps on and begin to kick my cock and balls. Eventually she'll tie me up, gag my mouth and kick more.
Once she feels I've sufferred enough for her, for the moment, she'll remove the gag and demand more oral worship. We'll wind up making out again and cuddling. Then she'll reverse squat over my face in bed, in a queening position, slapping and squeezing my cock and balls as her legs hold down my arms and her bottom mufffles my yelps from the pain. When she raises up on all fours, her feet behind my head pull my face up to lick her asshole.

We're out shopping at the supercenter. We pick up some pantyhose, panties, a bra. Perhaps some thigh-highs. She needs some new underthings, but it's understood, if I'm good, I'll get to wear some of her old things. We pick up a wooden spoon. No, not for cooking. Perhaps a dog collar. Clothespins -- oh my. And, before we leave, a pair of cool, traditional pumps. Our agreement, if either of us pull those out of the closet, ball-kicking is in order.

One of the scenarios I think about often is finding a woman who has been a sub and wants to switch to a dominant role. I wonder what it would be like. I imagine there might be times when she was a little too rough without proper preparation, as she learns the ropes, so to speak. I twould be cool, I think, to serve her as she learns.

Sometimes I wonder about the attitude that Female Dommes don't have sex with their male subs. It's pretty obvious that male doms have sex with their female subs. Why wouldn't Female Dommes have sex with the men who submit to them? I'm not talking about professional Dommes. Obviously, they cannot have sex with their subs. But I do know that Female Dommes do perpetuate the image, for it's at least that, that Female Dommes do not have sex with their subs. In some ways, I wonder, in a non-professional relationship, should I submit to a woman who would eliminate me from her list of sex partners because I submitted to her. It would, to my mind, seem as if I deserved her affections more than anyone. Some will probably bring up the idea of cuckholding, which, as a man who has been celibate most of his life, has no interest or excitement for me.

If money didn't matter, I wonder if I would be going to professional Mistresses more often. I don't begrudge them the tribute, I just don't have that much extra. I shouldn't confess that here, I suppose, but I have often wondered if Female Domination would exist at all without pro Dommes. I think it might just be a fantasy. Women are into sex and even a male dominant. And there are other lifestyle options. But the sub male, Domme Female option doesn't really seem to exist. I guess that's one reason why even though the on-line world makes Female Domination seem much more accessible, it's still pretty much a lonely dream.

Tonight I caught some shows on the IFC, Independent Film Channel. The shows were on sex, including sex as portrayed in movies and television. There were some very thought provoking segments. I thought the discusson on king and SM was intelligent and well-done.

When I first got on line a number of years ago, I was amazed to find all the Female Domination links. I have met some people through the on line experience. Overall, I still feel isolated because the people I've met are from outside my area.

One of the things I've always thought about is mixing some limited cross-dressing with the Female dominant relationship.
Years ago a woman I chatted with on line was cool enough to mail me some of her clothes that were old and worn out. There were a couple bras, a panty and even a short nightgown. I felt closer to her when I wore the clothes.
It would be fun, even doing some Domination dating, if occassionally the women would let or insist I wear something of theirs, or something she bought.
Of course, I would want to buy her clothes or help her purchase new items.
So ladies, don't throw away those old pantyhose. Let's have coffee and talk about it.

Well, the temperatures dipped for a few days here in sunny Florida and I noticed a silver lining in the cooler days and nights.
Yes, women wearing boots again! Very cool.

As day after day goes by in my life and I keep relatively to myself, one of my fantasies is to serve and be used by the women I work with on a daily basis.
Women must face this on a daily basis as men are on the make. But what, I wonder, would it be like if more women were into Female Domination and if they were aggressive about approaching guys in the workplace for experiences.

I continue to go to craigslist and check out the ad for Class A and think about the women in the picture as Dominas.
A few years ago, I might have gone already. I used to kind of get myself worked into a mind-set for a session.
It's tempting. This ads to my regular nightly dreams of being dominated by the women I work with every day.
Too long alone. Too much time to think.

Tonight, I called a local adult business that advertises women catering to men. The pictures in the advertisements showed very attractive young women.

My question, when I called, was whether they offer female domination services.

They do, I'm told.

Some women there offer domination, others don't.

I didn't ask any more questions. I didn't want to sound creepy. And, I'd like to say the young lady who answered the phone was helpful, cheerful and, I imagined, happy at the prospect of doing some domination.

Over the past years, at times, I've called another similar business in town. That business has since closed down. I had gone to that other business at times. Always for female domination. Sometimes, I had some real good sessions there. And, sometimes, I would call to ask if they offered female domination services. Sometimes they had a Dommme available, other timees not.

Now, I know there's a place in town that at least says they offer female domination. And, I admit I'm tempted. I don't know their experience, or if they're interested in my own fetish.

Also, for the past few years I stopped sessioning in hopes of developing non-professional relationships. I have been fortunate in that regard, although I am alone again and have been out of action because of heart problems. Truth be told, I'm probably not quite ready, healthwise.

In addition, I had an agreement with a professional Mistress that if I seek a session, it would be with her. We've sessioned. She is a spectacular Mistress, no question. Skilled. And, she knows my fetish. I still feel bound -- pun intended -- by our agreement.

What's significant in my phone call tonight is not only my loneliness, but my desire for female domination. I've never lost, I guess, that place in my mind where I desire Female Domination.

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