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Sorry, some fat, ugly loser complained about my photo....so I put one of another man with a huge cock.
You need to ask if you want to see my photos.
About me, I am 54 year old dominant, 6'3, 215 brown hair and blue eyes, I import and market electronic components from other countries into Southern CA. I like anything to do with water, horses, travel, golf, music, motorcycles, shooting pool...Etc.
I am reluctant to have casual sex (so if that's all you're interested in, move along). I have a vanilla life with my friends, family and work and it’s most important that the “vanilla” life work first.
As far as my views on D/s, it’s a natural development, because the submissive wants to please and simply put; the Dominant wants to be pleased. When mistakes are made then a natural feeling of guilt occurs as the submissive didn’t succeed in pleasing the Dominant.
It is my belief that submissives do not want control and simply put; this is a natural drive for getting into BDSM as a submissive – But if you back up a bit and take a look at why submissives don’t want control, then the reason is that they usually have a very controlling behavior and the Dominant helps them to take a “mental vacation” from this specific behavior. I believe this to be one of the core reasons for why some people become or are by nature submissives.
Mostly looking for a local partner or someone willing to relocate, not sexual at the start but if mutual attraction and connection develops, might move on to that.
I generally prefer younger submissives and I am attracted to nice bodies, busty is a plus. Someone with a variety of interests or interest in exploring new kinks would be a good match. I don’t have much of a Sadistic side, If the person I'm playing with is masochistic, begging to be hit/hurt/etc. harder/more sort of reinforce that hurt does not equal harm, and I'm not being cruel or abusive as that isn’t my goal. I'm not big on degradation. I'd rather have someone with dignity, confidence, and humility. As I said I am open and nothing is set in stone as far as what I am attracted to.
I never make dangerous or unreasonable requests, so I expect them to be followed the FIRST time. The following are requirements for any sub wishing to be considered by me:
- Dress, general lifestyle and vanilla life must be compatible
- Oral service at MY discretion
- Service
- Light humiliation/objectification (kneeling, collars, leash, eyes lowered, speech restriction, etc.)
- Some Impact play, nothing excessive or permanent
Traits I'm looking for in a sub:
- Open mind to try new forms of play, or already versatile in play options
- Honesty, with me and with yourself
- Loyalty
- Well-mannered
- Respect, for me and yourself
- Humility
Not looking for an online sub. Not interested in being in pornography, I placed a nude on my profile as it’s the only photo of me I am willing to put up as it does not show my face. I am in north San Diego, county. I have a very private house with a pool/Jacuzzi. I am not going to relocate and don't expect anyone else to, however I am open to a possible live-in situation with the right match vs just sessions.
To contact me, use proper grammar and punctuation. No text-speak. Make an attempt on spelling. I don't do cyber, but might be willing to play with a visitor to my city. I make that call on a case-by-case basis, and a photo will be required.
Flakes need not apply.
WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its
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NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or
forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a
violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
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