I am divorced, no kids, great job, and have a great interest in many different kinks. A lot of negative connotations come with being a switch, such as you don't really know what you want or you're just a player saying whatever it takes to get laid. That may be the case with some people but now with me. I truly do enjoy playing the dominant role at times and yet there are other times when I would just love to have someone take the tease and denial approach with me until I'm going crazy.
