I am a natural pleaser and nurturer, outgoing, like to have fun, always seeking to learn new things about myself,others and the world around me. There is alot to tell and I certainly can't list all of who I am here. Some things are meant to be learned about another through the desire to learn it.

What makes me tick? A strong, dominant man who is comfortable with his dominance and masculinity to the point he knows it is not seen as weakness by his submissive to be also gentle, tender and loving as well as controlling and demanding. Balance provides contentment on all sides.

People should know that while I have some rl experience, I am still exploring in my journey of submission. I make mistakes and will continue to do so as I gain more and more freedom to be myself. After years of not being able to fully be myself as a submissive, it is difficult at times not to struggle. Habits and behaviors formed can be changed. The core of who I am will not. I have a deep need and ache to serve the right One who will own me completely heart, mind, body and soul.

I have worn a play collar and the minute it was placed on my neck, I became so focused it suprised me. I would eventually love to be owned and a treasured possession of the Man who owns me. I have never recieved a collar of ownership with the words and committment that goes along with it, although one day it is my deepest desire to do so.

Pet Peeves...

People who dont drive the speed limit...I admit I tail gate *ack* something to work on, I know.

When I am angry, I like to take a breather, step back and calm back down to where I can be rational in my thinking and not emotional. From that point, I like to discuss things so they don't fester and can be let go.

Lies and Betrayal are my biggest deal breakers.

"Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability...nothing deepens intimacy like the experiences that we share when we feel flayed, with our skins off, scared and vulnerable, and our partner is there with us, willing to share in the scary stuff"