I often get asked about my choice of nick, so I thought I'd put the explanation here: the name elfling is a combination of the word "älskling", which means "darling" in Swedish (thanks MsLayla for the correct spelling), and elf, because of my somewhat elvish appearance (so I've been told ... :-) )

I am a cute, shy but very openminded male subbie with some experience in the world of B............. I'm using this site to meet a mistress......... a bit more.

Ideally, seeing as I'm a male heteropreferential (I just made that up!) submissive, I would like to meet a Mistress or female switch local to me, though I could also imagine myself travelling to neighboring countries, within reason.