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About Kdub74
What to say on these things.
Three-and-a-half years ago I "hit the reset button" on my life so to speak. I have decided to accomplish my dream of returning to school and getting my engineering degree (Now a Senior at CSUS). This has led to a not so glamorous short term situation, but I believe the long term benefits vastly outweigh the drawbacks. I am a veteran having served 6 years in the US Navy.
Okay, now that the boring history lesson is out of the way, on to the more interesting stuff, like what I'm into.
I identify as a switch. that doesn't necessarily mean that I have to Dom one minute and sub the next. It depends on who I am with, and feel very comfortable in either/both roles. I have been into the lifestyle for well over a decade (nearly 2 of them... wow, where does the time go?)
For me, my primary biggest kink is Bondage. I have practiced rope bondage off and on for most of the last 2 decades (yes, I got started early). Of course, I'm not a snob about my bondage style, I enjoy leather restraints, clingfilm, and various other toys just as much. Having complete control like that is a massive turn on for me. Also, being so completely out of control like that is so freeing. (and also a massive turn on) I sometimes was just happy to be completely wrapped head to toe (air holes obviously left open) and just left there to "float"... of course, being played with was a wonderful bonus at those times. Not being able to resist allows one to surrender to the sensations and feelings. That's when I am really able to fall into the realm where pleasure and pain make that wonderful blend.
I don't generally like to take things from other pages, but this really does hit the nail on the head for me entirely too well...
"I was a life long bondage and BDSM enthusiast...A very sincere type of fetishist, I was self binding in elementary school and tying up my freaked out girlfriends in high school...I like to think of myself mostly as a helplessness fetishist...whether being tied up myself or tying up women, I enjoy the predicament that bondage itself creates...
My attraction to bondage can be summed up by the ole damsel in distress, tied to the railroad tracks theme...fear and a helplessness to be free from it, peril, worry, struggling...and resignment...Pain and pleasure never came into the equation until later...the original turn on for me was the fragile state of helplessness..."
~ John the Ogre
Finally Took that BDSM Test. Here is how mine shook out:
You Scored as Switch
Switch 100%
Bondage 96%
Experimental 82%
Submissive 79%
Sadist 79%
Masochist 79%
Exhibitionist/Voyeur 75%
Dominant 68%
Degradation 29%
Vanilla 18% |
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