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About kdmm
"There is no more lively sensation than that of pain; its impressions are certain and dependable, they never deceive as may those of the pleasure women perpetually feign and almost never experience." Marquis d Sade
I am a sadistic dominant seeking a very submissive woman who is interested in building a strong, exciting and full relationship with me.
Let's talk about being sadistic. I get sexual satisfaction from inflicting pain in my sub/slave. Pain, to what level? I like restraining my sub/slave in very tight bondage so there is discomfort and pain. I like using whips, flogger and paddles to inflict the pain. These are just a couple of the methods I would employ to satisfy my need. What there will never be is anything that cuts or punctures the skin or breaking of bones. There will never be a point at which, I would not be in control and able to respond to the requests of my sub or slave. I cherish my sub/slave and the though of injuring her is unthinkable. Also as a note, I also enjoy and receive satisfaction from more traditional sexual contact.
I am a very organized and disciplined person. I also have very strong attachments to protocols and rituals that have been a part of my relationships since I ventured into the lifestyle. It is important that my slave be willing to accept that I will be strict and ruthlessly enforce adherence to my discipline, protocols and rituals.
I am not a micro-manager. I exepect my slave to use her intelligence to carry out task assigned and to manage her daily life within the guidelines I set.
We live in a vanilla world and must function in it a vast majority of the time. However, enslavement does not take a break when in public. The rules will always be in effect and I always provide ways to control my property in ways only we two can understand. Using a public place to willfully flaunt my authority is a most serious offense and as you can imagine would be severly punished.
I want an intelligent slave. One with whom I can discuss movies, literature and current events. She will have an opinion and when the time is appropriate it is greatly appreciated. I will look to her for input, but she will know the decisions are mine to be made alone.
To me, my slave is my most cherished property and I will look after her as such. There will, of course, be punishment for infractions and for my pleasure alone, but a blow will never fall as a result of anger. Punishment must come from a disciplined mind, with the end results squarely in the fore-front.
No games, no kidding.
This lifestyle is what fulfills me and give me joy and pleasure.
"I've already told you: the only way to a woman's heart is along the path of torement. I know none other as sure." Marquis de Sade
“When she's abandoned her moral center and teachings...when she's cast aside her facade of propriety and lady-like demeanor...when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure.....enticing from within this feral lioness...growling and scratching and biting...taking everything I dish out to her.....at that moment she is never more beautiful to me. ” Marquis de Sade |
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