If interested in contacting me I'm Kayjax on FL on okayjax on okc , the messaging system here is less than awesome for me.
I'm very interested in exploring my domme side, I'm mainly looking for one of three things.
1. Mtf transgirls, Geeky, kinky into arts are all plusses. For friends or more. I'm a bit starved for female energy and have had best luck connecting with you awesome ladies.
2.Submissive males. I'm very sexual and sensual I'm interested in bondage,cbt, I want to see you in heels and tights and panties so an interest feminization or cd is highly desirable.
3. Looking for a parent type dom/mentor someone very loving with their shit together (college educated with a job, car, house/condo.) Willing to help support me in getting the same for myself. Also I would want help sticking to schedule diet and weight loss, (looking to get down to 170-200 lbs and well muscled from 360 and soft) Counselling/psych interests is probably a good thing. I'm going to be extremely picky about this and we will need to meet several times and talk a lot before this moves to what will ideally be a live-in situation. Male or MtF preferred, Seattle area mandatory.
I am a caring kind individual, who wants to believe that I can help change the world in some small way. I'm shy, especially at first but really I am curious about most people and would like to have more people in my life. I don't feel grown up despite the few gray hairs that are coming in, I like to think that I still have some of that sense of wonder kids possess, resilient if not unwavering hope. Sometimes I have that feeling like everything is on the edge of happening, just give it a year or two and my life will be unrecognizable in strange and wonderful ways
I'm polyamorous, pagan with taoist leanings pansexual and queer are terms I'm liking lately more than bisexual and I am looking into living healthier, trying to hit the gym nearly every day. I read a lot, do artsy crafty stuff love comedy love board games and am a bit of a nerd.
I'm working on becoming the person I wanted to be when I was 17, somewhat tuning in, turning on and dropping out. I'm back in school for graphic design, trying to focus on my arts and make a living as an artist. I'm in process of ending a 10 year marriage, in the most amicable divorce ever on record I believe, but I am still living with the ex for a bit, til June 2014 when we're both through school.
