katohnine

I'm submissive with a bent toward slavery. I'm not a doormat. I'm a very happy "pet", collared to my Dominant and not seeking anyone to replace him.

I find it difficult to summarize "who" I am in little text boxes. Also, I think it's difficult to get a true feel for someone else by reading their text box.

To me, "this" is about a connection, an exchange of power that extends far beyond the reaches of the bedroom. It doesn't end because you pull up your trousers.

I don't believe that those who classify themselves as dominant are bigger or better people than those who are submissive or switch (or anyone else for that matter.) Rather, I look for people who just *are* dominant, for no reason other than that is who they are...how they are. I am submissive, I didn't necessarily choose to be anymore than I chose my gender. I am not less than you. I am not smaller than you.

I am fortunate enough to be in a relationship with my Dominant that involves living with him, serving him face-to-face, every day. I recognize that not everyone is that fortunate. I think there are a lot of people who have long-distance or online relationships, I have been one of them. With those I consider friends, I'm always willing to offer advice or support where I can. I think we all benefit from knowing there's a shoulder available to lean on, even if we don't need it at the moment.

I'm here to enjoy conversation and maybe pick up a friend or two. I'm very interested in meeting people from my local area. I would love to make friends with a submissive woman to do the "girl thing"...not the kinky girl thing, the regular shopping/hanging out girl thing.

I do not answer one liner emails...or emails that propose sex with strangers, animals, vegetables (or humans that resemble them)...or emails that ask me to come to work for you because you think it's my purpose in life...

Basically, I reserve the right to ignore you if you act like a doofus.