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katnip22

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I am 52yr old BBW I have a Daddy Dom who is my lover, swing partner- He is now training me up to be his sub and he my DOM- so I am not looking for a new DOM at this time- we are taking a break , however I will be looking to have playpartners in the future. I love ANAL , Hard Fucks, Hard fingering, Spankings, light bondage, blindfolds, toys
love to receive oral however do not like giving Oral (due to a rape where I was forced to give Oral) , on the same note don't like being choked or gags for same reason .
I will give Oral but would prefer to keep it to a minimum.

If you have a profile FETLIFE I have much more information about me and pics on Fetlife
profile name on Fet is katnip22 Kat
7/25/2016 6:46:15 AM

DOM FOR PLAY ONLY

I had a long talk with my Daddy Dom last night. He didn't realize why me looking for a DOM was bothering him so much as we have an open relationship. He had given me permission to look

for a DOM but came to the realization that after 5months of loving me and being in love with me- he feels he is my DOM and so do I, although we had gotten away from that part of our relationship. 

 

He doesn't wish to relinquish control over to another DOM.  He and I are going to work through the DOM/sub relationship that has been lacking.  That being said , he knows he doesn't have the time to give me the physical aspect of being my DOM on a regular basis. He has told me I can play with who I like and if Dom sub play comes into it then it is playtime only. He will NOT be MY Dom.

 

The DOM I play with would have understand my Daddy Dom is the one ultimately in control of me.

 

I am certainly willing to discuss this further as well as my Daddy Dom is also willing to talk about it but doesn't feel it is necessary. He trusts I will inform him of what the plan is as I always have in the past.   He just wants the final decision on what I do. He is my protector and always has been from day one five months ago. He and I have a special bond and I will abide by his request.

 

If this is a deal breaker I will understand. Please give your thoughts on the matter.

Thanks

Kat

7/21/2016 8:38:06 AM

Why be a sub, What do I want out of it

Journal Entry | 2 Comments |5 months ago

Why I want to be a sub and what I expect from being a sub:

I am in control in life, work, and home- I want someone to control me in the "bedroom", I need that both mentally and physically, I need the release - it is a stress relief. I gain pleasure from some one else being in control.

I want the intimate bond a sub/Dom relationship brings- servicing my Dom, knowing that he has my best interest in mind, and as we get to know each other, I can serve you better and you can push my limits.I have always wanted a

man to take the lead in beds, give me commands, stretch my limits it gets me really horny.

I believe communication is the key , a lot of the sub /Dom relation is mental as much as physical.

I like to be told what to do, if given an assignment , like to know what is expected of me.

I want a Dom who wants to sext with me- getting me off when we cant meet up.

I am strong willed and need a strong hand both verbally and physically. I "want to" it is almost a "Need to" give that control to my Dom. I need someone that I can trust with that authority (power) over me.

I want to be used as his slave, cumslut, not someone to put down, degrade or humiliate.

I also want to be protected and wanted as a sub should be.

I want to be bent over and fucked vaginally, anally and double penetrated,

I want to do it because my Dom requires it not because I want it as much as because he desires it.

I want to try new things, bondage, spankings, floggings,fisting, toys, anal, and other things my Dom wants for me and for himself. I want to explore all aspects of my sexuality while servicing my Dom to the fullest.