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hi im katha ask any thing you like im willing to talk and get to know just about any one im 22
THIS SUBMISSIVE LIVES BY THE "submissive creed"
  1. I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Top and I from from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
  2. I will not try to manipulate my Top. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. In other words, I will not top from the bottom.
  3. I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not comfortable with and expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.
  4. I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Top, and will do my best to fulfill his wishes and desires.
  5. I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. I know that submissive does not equal doormat.
  6. I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. I will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where I have been. I will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.
  7. I will be responsive to my Top. I will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that I may assist him in his responsibilities as my authority. I know that Dominants are not telepaths, and will not expect my Top to know thoughts or feelings which I do not share.
  8. I will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. I will not place total blame on my Top when it is not warranted simply because he is the Dominant. I realize that things may not work out as they should at times, and will do my best to put it behind me and move on.
  9. I will give my gift of submission only to those that can responsibly accept and desire to receive. I will not place anyone in the position of Topping me non-consensually, nor will I give my respect to someone that has not earned it.
  10. I know that D/s is not a contest, and will never think myself a "better" submissive because I choose to submit on a different level than another. I will not be boastful of the experiences I have had as a bottom.
  11. I will be obedient to my Top even if I disagree with what he is requesting. I realize he has my best interests at heart and often knows better than I what I need in a particular situation.
  12. I know that my actions reflect upon my Top, and will do my best to help others see him in a positive way. I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Dominant.
  13. Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with honor. I will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub-human. I will take pride in who and what I am and will never show myself in a negative way.


if you want to know me just ask i have nothing to hide from you While I certainly enjoy the physical nature of the D/s relationship the mental connection is the most important aspect and must come first. ~katha~
8/21/2010 9:36:07 PM
so im free again and i have learned alot from it want to keep learning from true people that care
8/13/2010 1:17:13 PM
i have learned about myself alot this past few weeks and good thing i have some one i trust leading me.....
7/14/2010 5:57:56 PM
so i had the best day y-day i was with the best coolest person ever it felt so right and so perfect im going to try to take this slow and not mess anything up (i hope)......... so you know who you are  ..... i miss you so much and you know fate is just tooo funny..........
7/5/2010 12:11:26 PM
i cant take another bad day today has been the worst i cant get along with anyone mot my family not my ex and no one on the site .... cutting dont help at the point of giving up...
7/4/2010 2:11:17 PM
another bad day dealing with my ex and just wanted to have a good 4th so im in  a verry bad mood and just having issures with people so if i have an attittude with you im so sorry ........
7/1/2010 9:08:38 AM
another bay of fighting the emotions with my ex and im having such a had time  just wish i could hide............
6/30/2010 8:13:15 AM
i have had a bad bad bad nite with my ex and it is still going this mornign i cant feel any more so im taking myself off of here as i cant tak the pain of life and no love so bye cm................
6/27/2010 7:56:16 PM
it has been a busy few days and i meet a few really good people and hope to meet more ...................~~~katha
mistressjadeSF
 
 Age: 18
 Red deer, United Kingdom