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Male Dominant, 27, bangkok

Female Submissive, 29, Boca Raton, Florida

Female Submissive, 28, london

Tip of the Day: Fellas, please don't send me multiple messages in an evening. Sometimes, if I read your first message and don't respond right away, it just means that I'm busy or tired or not in the mood to write back to you just that moment. Don't you ever check your email even though you don't actually plan on responding to any of it right then? If you see that I've read your message and haven't responded to it, it means one of three things: 1) I don't want to talk to you. 2) I'm in the middle of writing back to you. It takes me a while to write a message sometimes. 3) I'm busy/tired/whatever and planning on getting back to you later. In the first case, writing to me again is probably not going to help (especially if all you have to say is, "So I guess this means you don't want to talk"). In the second two, sending me more messages before I even get the chance to respond to the first is going to make me think you're a little bit creepy/overbearing/desperate/something else undesirable. There is REALLY nothing good that is going to come of sending me multiple messages, unless you accidentally sent your first before you were finished writing it or something.

So I have to say, while I do find the interest flattering, I'm really not interested in a relationship - or play, or anything else - with anyone who is old enough to be my father.? Again, I'm flattered by your interest, but as the saying goes, "Thanks, but no thanks."? I kind of hoped my "I don't have Daddy Issues" diatribe would weed some of that out, but I guess I didn't make myself clear.? As I stated in my profile, what I'm really ultimately looking for is a long-term relationship, and I'm just not going to be able to do that with someone who is twenty years older than me.? For one, my family would never let me hear the end of it.? I realize this may be a novel concept around these parts, and maybe it's just because I've been living in the "vanilla" world too long, but to me, "relationship" means that I can bring over to play boardgames with my brother-in-law without my family looking at me as though I've gone 'round the bend.? What we do in the bedroom (and my subtle deferral to you in other matters of our relationship) is our own business, but you still need to fit into my life as it stands without it requiring a total overhaul.? For obvious reasons, that's not going to work with someone that much older than me.? Plus, frankly, if you're in your forties and dating women my age, I really have to wonder what your deal is.? In my experience, there's usually a reason that a man dates much younger women, and it rarely means anything good.? For me to be able to realistically bring you home to meet my family, I'm going to have to set the limit at early to mid thirties, tops.

So, I realize that there are probably a lot of women in the BDSM scene who are drawn here in part by their "Daddy issues," but I would like to make this very clear: I am not one of them. Feel free to psychoanalyze me and the reasons for my attraction to the scene, but I will tell you right now that I am not the least bit interested in calling you "Daddy" in bed. I had and continue to have a great relationship with my actual, biological father, who I do, in fact, occasionally still call "Daddy", and he is the last person in the entire world who I want brought to mind while I'm getting laid. I am totally and completely open to roleplay...teacher/student, boss/secretary, whatever the hell you can come up with, I'm probably open to trying. But the idea of fucking my father is just not a turn on in any sense of the word. Just because I'm young doesn't mean I need a Daddy. I've got one, thanks.

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