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But I am wiser now. I know that D/s is anything two people wish to create that fulfills and nourishes them both, and with it brings them great joy.






Anyone who says D/s must be practiced in just one way to truly be D/s, or that a sub has to act a certain way to be a genuine sub is, I am convinced, simply talking out of their gluteal cleft.





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I have only recently discovered I am a submissive. I want to become the woman I was meant to be, and seek a dom for an exclusive, long term relationship. While I have only had a handful of D/s encounters, so my needs are still inchoate, I know in my heart, and I have been told, that I am profoundly submissive.





I am diminutive, quite fit (albeit I always struggle with my weight), with blond medium-long hair, blue eyes, great smile. I'm generally considered cute or attractive.





What I seek in a man is great strength of character, a literary bent, and the ability to make me laugh. He would be youthful in physicality and outlook on life. Someone set in his ways would not be a good fit for me.





Anyone who has ever met me would consider me a lady. I crave the dichotomy of being treated in the most chivalrous of ways outside the bedroom, and in the most wanton of ways inside it.



This is about a relationship, that just happens to include a D/s dynamic at its core. So I'm afraid if you are married, currently separated, or a smoker, there would be no point in contacting me. I need a connection before I can be comfortable with a man, so "play" is just not in my repertoire.






Thus far the journey to find the right man, the right dom, has proved both frustrating and painful, but I keep hoping he is out there because, well, I need him to be out there. I receive many responses that are cruel, lewd, and atrociously written, but my heart, my goal, remains pure and unshaken.



While I am willing to relocate, it would only be after a considerable time of getting to know one another.



--- Please note I am currently in law school.