Kate6

I strongly encourage everyone to actually read my profile before messaging!

(1) I am a total grammar Nazi. Messaging me using a bunch of Internet shorthand, poor grammar and lack of attention to spelling and punctuation is the online equivalent of hocking a loogie onto the sidewalk during the first 30 seconds of talking to me... I'm going to find you instantly unpleasant if you do it.

(2) I will not do webcam play with you. Yes, I own a webcam. I own a few of them, in fact. If we exchange a couple of Emails and find we like each other, I may go on Skype with you. But it will just be to chat -- not for play purposes. I find playing with someone I can't kiss, bite or otherwise touch exceedingly frustrating. Please don't even ask about Yahoo - I really don't like their Messenger software.

(3) I am not interested in completely casual play with anyone, regardless of what they look like. I am here looking to actually connect with people. I already have a tremendous amount of kink experience under my belt so there's no longer any particular activity that I'm "looking to explore" -- but I'm an intensely sexual person. If you don't think you'd be up for an ethical yet non-monogamous relationship, or at the very least a genuine friendship in which the sexy or kinky play takes a secondary role, please don't bother me.

(4) My hard boundaries list: I don't do fecal matter, animals, children, anything likely to communicate any sort of disease (including life), and I have to meet anyone who's going to be involved in a scene ahead of time and approve them. Everything else I've probably already done at one point or another and will probably be happy to do again with the right partner. Let me say that again, with the right partner.

(5) If the first words out of your mouth are about a specific fetish you're looking to explore, I will either ignore you completely or mess with you. Show me why I should want to have contact with you on a personal level, then bring up your kinky little pervy thing. If I've gotten to like you reasonably well, whatever your kinky little pervy thing is, it's not going to be a big deal to me. If you're a stranger, I'm going to be annoyed.

(6) I'm a dominant leaning switch. I'd absolutely love to get involved with someone who shares that orientation -- always nice to wrestle for who gets to top! If you just want to submit to me, show me (in order of importance): (a) That you're brainy (b) That you're artistically talented, with extra points going to talented musicians, writers and painters (c) That you look good in a short skirt and corset, and can take a good spanking! If you just want to domme me, well... I hope you're extremely sadistic and can handle a bigtime smart-assed brat!

(7) I'm very very intense. If you get drunk, take anxiety meds or get high for our first date, I will not touch you during it. It's important to me that, at least the first few times, when we're still feeling each other out, you are completely sober and able to stop me from doing anything you aren't comfortable with.