kanthari

Just to say that I get one liners ALL the time and your chances of getting a reply go up if you write something engaging :-)

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I call myself a submissive, but am not sure I if qualify because I have little 'real' experience. So the interests you'd find on the side are mostly what I fantasize about. But from reflection and how I'm with vanilla men, I'm more the regular looking, playful, often demanding, more often naughty (and slightly imperious) little-girl type.

As to what I'm looking for here. Ideally, to meet somebody and pursue a serious relationship. So that would mean that you being my complement in the sexual arena isn't enough. I'm curious, adventurous, and suffice it to say, that isn't limited to my sexuality.I am attracted to and love men and 'butch' women (my heart beats a sweet special one for you, lady; please don't hesitate to write to me).

I'm looking for someone kind (but who of course fancies hurting little type big girls), honest and wise (ha!). Who likes to experiment, push boundaries; someone who would (well, ideally) lead me to the edge and hold my hand as we peer into the abyss... Someone well read, and who is moved by beauty would be a plus :)

I should also add that my interests keep shifting, broadening(at least in my fantasies and online interactions and my limited real time interactions), and the only consistent need is to please. I'm satisfied, I derive the most pleasure, when YOU derive the most pleasure . So that means that If I'm attracted enough to you, if I respect you and want to be yours, I suspect I can be anything you want me to be.

Having said so much, I have to admit that I find myself increasingly fantasizing about topping...

I fancy myself to be rather attractive (if I like you, I'll be glad to send you pictures)-5'3" :), slim, short hair, nose-ring, anklets.

I also have a nice bum. Weally.

p.s. Like Gide would say, please do not understand me too quickly.