I am looking for a sub that is sexy smart and loving as iIwant more then just a sub I want a partner as well someone that wants the bdsm when the times are right and then be my partner when we have friends or guest over or just to go out for a romantic evening or a day trip to no where not that they both cant be mixed but just looking for a woman that wants it all a dom, a partner, a bestfriend, a lover, and a honest caring passionate man . A sub that is her own person during the day when out at work or whatever but then knows when he comes thur the front door that their most deepest feelings come out , and know that they are the sub that they truly are inside . they will know what they should be dress in when they are in the house. I want her to have a idea of her limits but wants to push them as well . but her safety is what will always come first and for most .