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| Hi,
I am a 45 y/o professional submissive male who has had the benefit of 3 different types of long term relationships in my life: (A) vanilla, (B) disciplinary wife type, and (c) disciplinary wife type on steroid.
My vanilla relationship was with my high school sweetheart. Although I was young and she was sweet, she was also passive aggressive which led to tension, fights, and ultimately separation. I realized after this relationship that the best partner in life is a woman who is firm handed and authoritarian. I was fortunate to meet such a woman, and was the beneficiary of many maintenance and punishment style spanking in the course of our relationship rather than fights and discord. Unfortunately, over time her interests expanded in other areas of SM and public play, that was not compatible with my own. However, I grew from the experience and met a woman who was stricter and firmer. In this relationship, which I call disciplinary-wife on steroid. In this relationship, the understanding was that men are boys, boys are naughty and need to be regularly spanked, and a proper spanking is one that always ends in a lot of tears and a very red and sore bottom. Unfortunately, as a result of a death in the family, this relationship ended and my wonderful partner moved back to Europe.
I have realized that I am a better man when there is a very strict firm handed woman in my life.
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