After a great session with Master and being used very well, i reflect back on some suttleties of the session.
Let me preface this by saying in my search for submissiveness and a Master that will foster my growth and developement in many ways, i have wondered what type of kink and control would best fit me. i read on here about all types of Dominance and all types of levels of control, humiliation and kink and still don't know where I fit yet. i have 2 wonderful Leaders that are trying to help me find the answers to this but one thing i have discovered recently is this.
I do not need to be forced into submission.
I thought i needed the hard, stern and slightly mean Master in order for me to feel his power as i have been so powerful in my own life for years. i thought i needed to be punished and have fear instilled in me to obey without hesitaion when my Master wanted me to serve him and i may have other ideas of what i would like to do.
i have discovered that when the training and the trust develops within a healthy union that my need to submit and serve my Master was just there. i have been taught a few lessons at the hand of a very loving Master and Trainer and trust both of them. i do not fear them in the way i thought i needed to. i realize i already "FEAR" dissappointing them more than fear their physical power.
As i instinctively closed my legs in reaction to a negative stimulus my Master said one word very quietly "Open". My legs fell open and remained there like a well trained slut.
i did not do this from fear of him as i would if he yelled at me, pulled my hair or threatened worse. i honored him by doing his wish and not denying him the pleasure he sought. i felt pride in my instinctive reaction to do what he asked of me without hesitation and to respond back after with fervor and lust not with reluctance and disobediance.
The submissive slut i am is understanding herself more and more each day. i am understanding my need for submission, my want to please and my desire to give my whole self, mind and body to the Master that i best fit with. |