JudasTree

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dildos,biting,toilet service,slapping,kicking,cunt,tit,clit, torture, deep close confinement,encasement,hard labor.

relyfe programming

What is a slave? It is simply a piece of  property, no different from a chair, a pair of shoes, a footstool, or a toilet.

One of the important characteristics of objectification is that the person being objectified does not, or cannot, actively participate in what is occurring around them. This is important because to actively be involved means they have some non-object qualities, such as ability to think. To reinforce this lack of efficacy, the person can be blindfolded or hooded---vision being one of the ways in which we can be aware of our role in activities---thus separating the person even more from what's happening and removing their active involvement.

"I don't consider BDSM an 'alternative lifestyle' because I don't think we should have to choose between living our fantasies and being productive members of society.  I see domination and submission as an opportunity to embrace and explore our entire selves by rewriting the rulebook and create a world within a world for just two people."

Each morsel of vulnerability I draw from you translates directly into power and confidence in the other compartments of your soul.**

**You can have a great time with role-playing games, safe-words and other means by which to simulate a master/mistress-slave relationship for a period of time ranging from a few hours to life. If that is what you enjoy then no one has the right to criticise or belittle it. But it is just not submission. Establishing limits and expecting the dominant to abide by them reduces him or her to the role of assistant to the submissive's pleasure. It is conceptually impossible to submit and stay in control at the same time.**

**Nor can one switch it on or off as fancy or opportunity takes one. Submission is an on-going, permanent and irreversible process. It doesn't end with the words or the collar or the brand or whatever. In point of fact, it only just begins there and must be renewed hour after hour, day after day. The security, the caring, the love perhaps, even the turn-on; all these things are the results of, not the prerequisites for, all genuine submission. A slave is entirely and absolutely free to choose whether or not to submit, and to whom, but having chosen s/he relinquishes all control to his/her owner completely. S/he can only do so on faith, because there can be no guarantees.** **Submission by its very nature dictates no terms and sets no limits. It is undertaken, not because one wants to, but because one cannot, not do it, come what may. It goes far beyond the merely sexual, to the point where it isn't gender-specific at all. It goes far beyond reason or logic, since no one who has ever submitted, has done so without their alarms going off all over the place.** **WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A SLAVE** **A Master takes away his slave's free use of time. Her time no longer belongs to her. She rises in the morning when instructed, and her use of time is at Master's will. She will work at what Master orders when he tells her. If she works outside the home, she is expected back at a certain time, her time belongs to him. When she eats, sleeps, perhaps uses the bathroom, when she does her chores, and when and if she has leisure is not for her to decide. Her time is not her own. If Master calls her to his side, she goes, no matter what she was doing. Her time is not her own, it belongs to Master. When you take away a woman's free use of her time, it no longer belongs to her, but becomes Master's time. I think there is no more powerful psychological experience than that of not owning your own time.** **Physicality: The experience of one's body as one's own. A slave's body does not belong to her. She is instructed on how to wear her hair, whether and how to use makeup, when to be clothed, and in what clothing, and when to be naked, how to care for her skin and nails. She can be stripped and inspected at will. She is denied free access to her own pleasure. She may not masturbate without permission. She may not climax without permission. She may not take aspirin for a headache without permission. She has sex when, how, and with whom her Master decides. She must bear whatever pains are inflicted upon her. She has no right to say "no" to the use of her body. After a time, her psychological reality becomes "my body no longer belongs to me." When you take away a woman's free use and handling of her own body, it no longer belongs to her, but become's Master's property. It is a powerful shock that first moment a woman recognizes that her body is no longer her own.** **Privacy: We free beings are used to the right to privacy. We close bathroom doors. We perform our ablutions in private. We would prefer to be left alone when we are ill, perhaps, or cranky, or not looking our best. We hide the evidence of our menses: flush the tampons, wrap the used napkins. We take our deepest fears, our most intense angers, our illogical primitive emotions and hide them from others, lest they turn from us in disgust or fear. We note our dreams in morning and consign them to the dream ether from whence they come; they disturb us and we wish to forget. A slave has no right to any of that privacy. There is no private space in which a slave can hide from Master, either literally or metaphorically. She may not close a bathroom door. If Master wants her to experience her lack of privacy, he may choose to intrude upon her bathroom functions. She may not hide her fears, her angers, her emotions, for when Master intuits she is astir, he will be in her face until she opens them to him. When a woman has no privacy, neither physical nor psychological, she no longer owns her space, her external or internal space. When you take away a woman's privacy, she no longer owns her internal or external space, her very essence belongs to Master.** **We can see why this takes time. It takes time because one must repeatedly, consistently, doggedly take ownership of a woman's time and body, and strip her of the right to privacy. And it's no wonder there is resistance along the way: it's not only willfulness that must be addressed, but resistance out of fear when a woman begins to be transformed, when she feels her ownership of her time eroded, her ownership of her body stripped away, her privacy gone. A woman enters this process a free agent, comfortably familiar to herself, and is truly transformed.** **She becomes a slave.** **PAIN INTO GIVING** **Man Ray** **TENS** **Breath Play** **Tight Bondage** ** Are you looking for romance and a little kink on the side.** **Or are you looking to be fully owned and controlled however and whatever that will entail.** . **Getting back into something I was a part of for years when it was so secretive that more was known about the Mason's then was known about a Master/slave relation.** * A slave surrenders all its human rights and civil liberties and indeed it has no real need of them. The slave is after all just a mere nonentity that is the owned property of its lawful owner. A slave is not its owners spouse, lover, friend, associate, colleague; it is its owners owned property...period. The slave cannot say what it pleases, do what it pleases or go where it pleases. It can only do what it is told and go where it is told. * Being a slave is by no means an easy option in life, nor should it be so. A slave must apply it and continually strive to prove its value. It must have plentiful labor to keep it busy during the day so it’s never really idle. Some lady owners require it to endure painful suffering in order to alleviate their own stressful anxieties and/or to enhance their three dimensional cathartic euphoria and improve and maintain their general well being. Even when safety is ensured it is no easy task for the slave to endure. Not all owners wish to do that though. * Since recorded history and doubtless also in prehistory, it has been the custom and tradition for a slave to be kept completely naked were possible and to be placed in various types of restraint to restrict but not prevent movement. Such restraints have varied but included shackles, locked or soldered collars, locked chastity restraints. These have served a purpose of demonstrating to the slave and to others that it is property that owns and has access to nothing of its own and that it is completely owned and under the absolute power of its designated owner. It also additionally served to reinforce the slavery through humiliation, degradation and subjugation. * A slave belongs to its owner and is on the periphery of its owner’s life, not at the center of the owner’s life. It places a servile and support function role only. Its conduct in slavery must be impeccable and it must never ever let its owner down. * A slave should never ever have access to the same luxuries that a freeborn person has. It should be housed in a small locked room or a cage when it is resting or sleeping or otherwise not required. Adequate heating and ventilation provided along with food and drink and mobile toilet facilities during its confinement stay. * Once owned the slave should not have any further contact with family or friends nor should it watch television, listen to the radio, read newspapers, periodicals, books, use the computer, or telephone and write to anyone. It also has no right of complaint about its treatment as a slave or any right of appeal to a third party. * It is property that is owned and so it must remain. Once negotiations have ceased and agreement reached about the parameters of the said slavery, the slave itself must offer itself unconditionally and not place any hindrance in the way of its owner’s legitimate right to use her owned property as she herself chooses within the agreed parameters. HYPNOSIS PSYCHOLOGICAL INFILTRATION MIND CONTROL BRAINWASHING THOUGHT REFINEMENT SUBLIMINAL PROGRAMMING POSITIVE/NEGATIVE ASSOCIATION BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION REORIENTATION INDOCTRINATION **You say you have experience.What type of experience?** **Wearing a corset stockings and heels to a play party is not experience.Its dress up play.** **Being tied up,is not experience.** **If it were most people would already have experience since a number of you were tied up as kids in the games kids play.** Some profiles will ask about your experience as a slave. I have other questions that are far more important. You see I don't care how well you suck cock. Or if you can take pain, or even how you look naked or dressed in heels stockings or other items. I want to know how well you clean house. What skills you have other than the ones mentioned over and over in every profile here. What skills do you have. What type of a person are you. That is what I want to know. Not if you have been tied up,gagged,flogged whipped,etc. Are you living a life that makes you really happy. Or are you just living,sleep walking here on this planet. What kind of life do you desire.

My belief is that a girl should always be horny, humble, humiliated, hungry and hurting for the pleasure of her man (the 5-Hs).

I also believe that a girl should not have any limits, other than death or those set by the man.

Someone sent this to me a few years ago.

I found it while I was cleaning out files.

women who complain about being a doormat i feel don't understand a woman's position.
we as women are not equal to the Man who has taken us.
He owns us we are to be what He wants
Being what He wants is what completes our femininity and purpose.
HE LEADS HE OWNS that is our value that He even wants us
if HE is not happy we are worthless
if laying in Diamonds is what he wants us to do then that is what gives us value.
But if He wants us to lay in feces then it is there we have value
it is what the MAN needs
to many women miss these simple truths
we
are just a chunk of bone god made a tool/toy for the man with. i even
wonder if we can be slaves, god himself said we are lesser beings
meaning not human like a Man who is the superior being to all beings.

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They travel with you. Sleep with you.Even dine with you.Your friends know nothing of them.  
You try to ignore them.You push them away.Even tell yourself that they don’t really matter.  
 
They will never go away.They are known by many names. Desires,Needs,Wants,Feelings,Fantasies.  
 
They are always there. Teasing,Enticing,Tempting,Nagging...

There's been a movement in the works for some time, I've noticed it stirring here and there on various BDSM message boards and forums. Submissive women who have been called "doormats" are standing up and saying they are happy to be doormats, that they like being pushovers and tender-spirited and sensitive.  
 
They are reclaiming the word "doormat" for themselves just like the GLBTQ movement has reclaimed the word "queer". What used to be tossed around as an insult and as something -no one- would want to be is getting recognized more and more as a valid and healthy life choice.  
 
So if you're a submissive who:  
 
is gentle, meek, shy, soft-spoken, or tender-spirited  
is "overly" sensitive  
is easily intimidated & overpowered  
is afraid of or hates confrontations  
would rather do anything other than directly confront bullies or attackers (like cry, try to befriend them, charm them, avoid them, ignore them, apologize profusely, take their abuse, get a Protector to respond to them, etc.)  
conforms to others' expectations of you in a chameleon-like way to make them happy rather than resisting  
has been called a "doormat" and wonders why that's so wrong  
hates to raise her voice and/or to look into peoples' eyes for too long  
would rather accept unfair criticism or punishment than argue your case too strongly  
...or anyone who wants to take back their right to be the gentle personality they naturally are without being insulted about it, 

It has been my experience that the slut. The woman with the slut desires that burn inside her is more real than any other.She is without a doubt the most honest.

The slut will not be pushed aside the slut will come forth it is a power that can never be hidden or denied.

To change you into something you are not.Force/command you to do things you may never have thought about.

Here is one example I found on a female slaves profile.

because I get a lot of questions on this I'll add it for everyone.. I'm used to cruel and humiliating use, i've had it in the past, things like getting whored out and being used in public by strangers are things i'm used to doing and am looking to do again... so when u ask me what sort of humiliating things im talking about in my profile, this is it, this and whatever else past this you can push me to do.

The key words being "what you can push me to do."

FEMALES,FEMALES.

NOT INTERESTED IN MALES.

Key Words: The Horse,Fun with TITS and NIPPLES,

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Slavery is not about 100 percent sex, or sexuality. As some would wish or want. Thats a whole lot of wishfull thinking. Slavery or a slave is a state of being. Knowing what you are. And accepting it. A slave is neither male or female, nor str8, bi or gay. Just an object to be used. A toy. This is real, not play, not role play.