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About JTreyL
Why hello there, I am Jordan Trey. I'm a young college student and game store manager hoping to make a foothold and gain some experience in the BDSM community, of which I am admittedly a novice. I consider myself a very intelligent, admittedly handsome and sociable guy, privy to a lot of scenes in my local area, say for the BDSM one. Walk around STL for a while, you will probably meet me or someone who knows me eventually. Despite my submissiveness, I am FAR from shy or timid outside of play, on the contrary I am very fun loving and assertive and enjoy engaging with other intelligent and exciting people on topics of interest or in exciting events.
I consider myself a modern day Renaissance man, so my areas of study are wide and diverse, (gives me a lot to talk about though), but they three main categories seem to be business, film and cosmetics, three fields of study I get to combine in my own business I started doing wedding videos for brides. When not studying, shooting and editing video or clubbing, I work as a manager at a store that sells and trades videogames, decent position for someone my age, or so I have been told, but I always feel like I could be doing more. I push myself hard. Beyond those activities, I enjoy playing video games, cooking delicious meals, doing makeup, exercising, reading, learning new languages and performing.
Now on to the BDSM. I am a submissive! I am admittedly good at playing the more "dominant" role, have done it before with sexual partners in the past and it always kills the relationship, I truthfully do not enjoy it. I am good at reading people, and I prided myself at being able to take their fantasies and desires, unflinchingly, and make them real, but have never been in a place to have the same courtesy extended to me. I am both a true submissive and a fantasist. I have fantasies and roleplays I have always wanted to play out, but they aren't as important as giving myself up to somebody and allowing them to play out their desires and use me for their happiness and fulfillment...if it's real and not an act. I am bisexual but in a very odd way. I am attracted to dominant woman only, the image, the personality, the aura, but not vanilla women..at all.. the idea of servicing, obeying and being completely owned by a female is captivating and erotic as all hell to me, but I could never date one. I am far too submissive to please a woman, they would tire of it quickly, especially since I could not be that bastion of guidance and comfort they require, it's something I need myself so I would never impose myself on one. They want a man, not an adult child. Men, I am more flexible on, I can have more meaningful relationships with them, both vanilla and in the world of S/M, but I prefer submitting to a woman over a man simply for the fact it feels more taboo and I have yet to have it happen in my life.
Well that's about it, anything more, give me a holler, always interesting in meeting new people, regardless of who you are and what you are into, I am quite the approachable person and I am sure we could find common ground.
Things That Make Me Happy
A good film.
A good meal.
A good book.
Good company.
Honesty.
A woman with confidence.
A caring guy.
A spectacular show.
Acting.
Successfully completing a project or goal.
Learning something new.
Seeing an act of kindness.
Having fun.
Making true connections with people.
Things I HATE!
Close mindedness.
Shady and deceitful people.
People who don't try.
People who try to hard.
Ignorance.
Papercuts.
Bad filmmaking.
Filthy surroundings.
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