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About JSybarite
Are you a very feminine, romantically inclined, submissively oriented woman? Are you educated and career minded, but also wish to have a discreet private life where you can escape your public persona and relinquish control and serve? Do you wish to be taken care of and treasured, as well as lovingly, yet firmly controlled? Does a modern version of an old fashioned, 'gender defined roles' lifetime relationship appeal to you?. If so, we might be compatible.
Many men desire someone who is the epitome of the cultured, sensuous Lady in the living room and a passionate 'pleasure slave' in the bedroom (what a friend of mine calls "contextually appropriate"), but I've learned that it's the relationship that sustains. I'm single and looking to meet someone who wants to build a truly substantive Power Exchange relationship.
BDSM has been a part (but never more than a part) of my life for many years now. I have not attended every Vicious Valentines, Kinky Kollege or SINSations in Leather (etc.) weekend (but, I've gone to a few). I haven't gone to Galleria Domain EVERY weekend for years, but I've been going on and off since before it was called Galleria Domain. I am currently a member, and I like to go from time to time, particularly for the educational/social events. I haven't read every work of BDSM fiction, but I've read a fair bit. So too with the 'How To' and theory books. I'm not an expert Shibari rigger, but I know a few knots. I'm much more of a Dominant than I am a Sadist, but I have some "toys" and I like to use them. I'm usually a gentleman, but occasionally 'The Monster' likes to come out and play. In addition to FL, I can be found on CM ybarite) and B.Com and alt. (JCSybarite).
I'm not interested in Taming any Shrews, but in meeting women who already know what they want. If your "submission" can only be had through sleep deprivation and waterboarding, I'm not interested. I am not compatible with those who self-identify solely as bottoms and not submissive. If you're submissively oriented AND masochistic, so much the better. THEN we can talk about the sleep deprivation and waterboarding.
; )~
I'm an excellent cook. Music is one of my true passions. I'm well read, enjoy the theatre, and film. I'm politically Liberal. I'm a secular humanist, but open minded. Your spirituality is fine, so long as you're not a proselytizer.
Here's a quote I like because it sums up much of what I believe, if this resonates with you, we may be compatible:
"Thy husband is thy lord, thy life, thy keeper, thy head, thy sovereign, one that cares for thee. And for thy maintenance commits his body to painful labour both by sea and land. To watch the night in storms, the day in cold, whilst thou liest warm at home, secure and safe, and craves no other tribute at thy hands but love, fair looks, and true obedience. Too little payment for so great a debt." The Taming of the Shrew, Act V, scene 2.*
Oh, and if this applies to you, you may not be my ideal person (to be read with a sense of humor)
Lack of intelligence, lack of education (formal or informal), lack of empathy, suburbia, the American Musical Theater, women in masculine attire, Disco, pantyhose, spitting instead of swallowing, Top 40, Smooth Jazz, Easy Listening, Today's Country, too many piercings, too many tattoos, poor grooming, overly 'loud' cologne, overly hairy pussy, hairy armpits, S.T.Ds, Miracle Whip, sweet pickles in any form, beets, liver, haggis, BRATS(not the sausage), S.A.M.s, Walmart, Nike, astrology, dishonesty, laziness, Reality TV, Dr. Phil, gingham, store bought tits, Martha Stewart, and selfishness. |
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