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JSybarite - Male Dominant, Chicago Illinois | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About JSybarite


Are you a very feminine, romantically inclined, submissively
oriented woman? Are you educated and career minded, but also wish to
have a discreet private life where you can escape your public persona
and relinquish control and serve? Do you wish to be taken care of and
treasured, as well as lovingly, yet firmly controlled? Does a modern
version of an old fashioned, 'gender defined roles' lifetime
relationship appeal to you?. If so, we might be compatible.

Many men desire someone who is the epitome of the cultured, sensuous
Lady in the living room and a passionate 'pleasure slave' in the
bedroom (what a friend of mine calls "contextually appropriate"), but
I've learned that it's the relationship that sustains. I'm single and
looking to meet someone who wants to build a truly substantive Power
Exchange relationship.

BDSM has been a part (but never more than a part) of my life for
many years now. I have not attended every Vicious Valentines, Kinky
Kollege or SINSations in Leather (etc.) weekend (but, I've gone to a
few). I haven't gone to Galleria Domain EVERY weekend for years, but
I've been going on and off since before it was called Galleria Domain.
I am currently a member, and I like to go from time to time,
particularly for the educational/social events. I haven't read every
work of BDSM fiction, but I've read a fair bit. So too with the 'How
To' and theory books. I'm not an expert Shibari rigger, but I know a
few knots. I'm much more of a Dominant than I am a Sadist, but I have
some "toys" and I like to use them. I'm usually a gentleman, but
occasionally 'The Monster' likes to come out and play. In addition to
FL, I can be found on CM ybarite) and B.Com and alt. (JCSybarite).

I'm not interested in Taming any Shrews, but in meeting women who
already know what they want. If your "submission" can only be had
through sleep deprivation and waterboarding, I'm not interested. I am
not compatible with those who self-identify solely as bottoms and not
submissive. If you're submissively oriented AND masochistic, so much
the better. THEN we can talk about the sleep deprivation and
waterboarding.

; )~

I'm an excellent cook. Music is one of my true passions. I'm well
read, enjoy the theatre, and film. I'm politically Liberal. I'm a
secular humanist, but open minded. Your spirituality is fine, so long
as you're not a proselytizer.

Here's a quote I like because it sums up much of what I believe, if this resonates with you, we may be compatible:

"Thy husband is thy lord, thy life, thy keeper, thy
head, thy sovereign, one that cares for thee. And for thy maintenance
commits his body to painful labour both by sea and land. To watch the
night in storms, the day in cold, whilst thou liest warm at home,
secure and safe, and craves no other tribute at thy hands but love,
fair looks, and true obedience. Too little payment for so great a debt."

The Taming of the Shrew, Act V, scene 2.*


Oh, and if this applies to you, you may not be my ideal person (to be read with a sense of humor)

Lack of intelligence, lack of education (formal or informal), lack
of empathy, suburbia, the American Musical Theater, women in masculine
attire, Disco, pantyhose, spitting instead of swallowing, Top 40,
Smooth Jazz, Easy Listening, Today's Country, too many piercings, too
many tattoos, poor grooming, overly 'loud' cologne, overly hairy pussy,
hairy armpits, S.T.Ds, Miracle Whip, sweet pickles in any form, beets,
liver, haggis, BRATS(not the sausage), S.A.M.s, Walmart, Nike,
astrology, dishonesty, laziness, Reality TV, Dr. Phil, gingham, store
bought tits, Martha Stewart, and selfishness.
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