JRSparrow

Male Dominant, 38, cedar hill, Texas

My Shibari bites. Probably better to have a teacher and a subject to practice on. Its not exactly an art form that can be practiced like nautical knot work. Frankly, I find nothing erotic about it in the least. Seems like an intense meditation. Hand, eye, body (subject) enhancement. As an art form I get it. How it applies here has always evaded me. Even at the get together's in Seattle, the room would be divided into 'play' space (which I find boring) and Shibari, which is fascinating to watch.

I can see special beauty in all forms of female appearances and ages from 18 to really old, pro-Ana to BIG fat bottomed girls and women. You just have to know what to look for. I don't play the 'looks' card, so what if a person looks a certain way??? What is inside. I have several I chat with here, and they span the age and looks. One in my area is taken, but we have become pals. Attraction is ALL about attitude. Most Dom's hate agressive, argumentative, bitcy females, I do.. I even know Domme's who speak politely and sweetly and they are Dominant! Go figure. I am chatting with one very sweet girl now who is a true submissive. She wants to please, no stupid limits, just please. And in turn I would want to be giving to her..

When did the definition of 'submissive' turn to' get aggressive'? Ok, so far one obvious money con snd one very newbie sub that has not got a clue. Very agressive nature, obviously has met many fake Dom-abee's on here.. Needs training from someone with a lifetime in the lifestyle. Wow, we sounded like an old married vanilla couple from her not thought out question, which of course my answer was not good enough. I should have recommended she just get a normal neighborhood boyfriend. BUT, she is a 'student', and they know everything, and young, my how the young are so learned. She knows more that I could have ever learned in university. I must burn my degrees!

I have been in this lifestyle a long time. I have tried my level best to have a vanilla girlfriend. That was a failure. I do wonder about something.. If a sub is going to be a sub? Why have simple limits? I find that many subs dictate how and what they like rather than being a submissive. This leads me to be able to detect the RP/fetish subs from the real true and natural subs. Read my profile... If you want to be MY sub, its REAL, not role play. And you will wear the style of panties I make for you. If not, you are NOT a real sub and I am not interested. Simple, not rocket science. If you say you are a submissive to me I will assume you are real and its not a fetish, or don't write me.

Just had a very interesting conversation here with a very nice young lady. She is quite in the need of training in the area of communication, in which she misinterpreted me twice. The last time very badly and signed off. I hope she finds a good man. She will, and easily if she looks just a bit harder.

Just testing this out!

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