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Female Submissive, 50, western suburb, Illinois
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Male Switch, 33
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About JoyOfLiving
I am mostly looking for local folks (San Francisco Bay Area) to interact with in person. Although I do have a few cyber-friends I really enjoy.
I have enjoyed tickling and sensation play all my life, identified as poly since early adulthood, and am now starting to learn tantra. I joined the kink scene in February 2009.
I am a sensation and pleasure slut, for both topping and bottoming. I don't bottom to pain play, and rarely top it. I like to top and bottom about equally, enjoy the Domme role, and rarely sub. I greatly enjoy collaborative play where there is no Dom or sub, where topping/bottoming switches between players.
I love doing casual play at parties in scenes that involve no fluid exchange. I enjoy public and private scenes that range from sensual only, through minimally sexual or sexually teasing, to sexual. I love variety and enjoy playing with a wide range of people: men, women, transgenders, triads, groups...
Currently, I am looking for long-term partners and deep emotional, intellectual, and physical intimacy. I want intimate and cooperative relationships where we collaborate to create magic, but don't join at the hip.
I like to give and get lots of physical affection and nurturing. I enjoy cuddling, touch, massage, and sleeping cuddled with each other, as well as sex, kink, and tantra.
I want relationships where we do and be more together than we could separately. Where our purpose in being together is to enhance our happiness, nurture the best in each other and ourselves, and help each other flourish. It is very important to me that we treat each other as valuable and important.
I am open to dating individuals, couples, or triads who seek an ongoing, loving poly + kink and/or tantra relationship.
You: Happy, loving, affectionate, high self-esteem, good boundaries, strong, forthright, very into safe play, nonsmoker, flexible, playful, open-minded, and poly or nonmonogamous. You must be positive and upbeat. (I am all of these things.)
I greatly prefer playing with people who are strongly responsive (noises, wiggling)... especially if you respond most strongly to what you LIKE. Bonus points if you are into sensation play, ticking, or being ticked.
If you are partnered, your partner must (a) know about your involvement with me, and (b) be okay with it.
Me: Poly for years -- of the full-disclosure rather than the "don't ask, don't tell" no-shared-details variety. My partners get enough information about my activities with other partners to make their own decisions regarding physical safety. I require the same in return.
I also require clean toys, clean bodies, and careful safety practices. I am very picky who I do fluid exchange with -- even kissing. Most of the people I play with, I do zero fluid exchange with.
As a top, I love responsive partners. I love doing things that my partner likes and respond to. That extends from pleasure-only sensation and sex play into intense tickling and light pain: nipple play, CBT, riding crops.
As a bottom, I'm a total sensation slut. While I dislike pain, I am super-sensitive to a wide variety of sensations (especially light touch and tickling), and loud and enthusiastic in my responses.
Hard limits: breath, blood, scat, cutting, needles, body modifications, and anything with significant inherent physical risks. (If we can make it safe, great. If it's inherently unsafe, I'll pass.)
For me, the kink scene is a smorgasbord of exciting delights. Most of what I've sampled I've liked, often a lot. I'm eager to try more.
I occasionally play publicly at the SF Citadel, and at Pansexual Play Parties at The Looking Glass in Oakland.
Wanna play?
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