JourneyMaster


Journeyman Male Dominant, 21, Austin, Texas	journeymanrob Male Dominant, 29, South Bend, Indiana	journey Female Switch, 45

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About JourneyMaster

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The names have been changed due to reasons of discretion.

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Master Masons road to dominance.

I entered the world of dominance in 1983, at the age of 16 (as I was born in the year of 1967), under the mentorship of an older Master (Thomas) and his submissive wife (Jeanette)

Thomas and Jeanette were neighbours and good friends of my parents
(and about the same age), but they had no children so I became the son
they never had.

My childhood was very happy, growing up in quiet, wealthy villa-suburb
as the older son of two well-educated academics and I have a younger brother.

If there ever was a product of the proper and solid "bourgeoisie"; that's me.

My parents were not aware of my engagement in BDSM at the time (they are however now), and they do approve though with a bit of reluctance. My brother knows as well, but he neither asks nor comments.

Furthermore, Thomas and Jeanette had a summer cottage just outside of town, with a sailing boat, a motorbike and a lot of other fun stuff for a sixteen year old kid; but they also had their playroom/dungeon there.

I discovered it by accident, went in and got fascinated.

Thomas was scared stiff that I would tell anybody (after all I was under
aged), but it was his sensible wife that said; "if he has a notion
for this, it is better that he learns it from us than going ahead on
his own."

Need to say I am eternally grateful for that decision, even if we do
not have any contact today. (See Ps)

I stayed with them for five years (except an exchange year in the US

1985-86) and I had my first female slave at the age of 18
(When I was not under aged anymore)

This happened in January 1985 whilst I headed for the US in July the same year.

This was a lady friend of Jeanette, previously under the whip and
wing of Thomas, but now given to me as a present (!) for my 18 th birthday; Sophia.

She was a very attractive lady in her late twenties and it was a
tremendous feeling to have her completely at my disposal.

In those days I was convinced that my future slave should also be my
girlfriend and vice versa, and I went through a couple of such
relations as well.

I have always been consequently straight (heterosexual) and dominant,
given the large amount of homo- and bisexuals in the BDSM-scene; not
to mention all the people who alternate between being dominant and
submissive ("switch").

Of course I fully respect other notions such as homo or bi-sexual as
well as switch but it is not my cup-of-tea so to speak.

As I take my dominance dead seriously I do not play around with
neither my sexuality nor my dominance - one straight and consequent
line is the ideal.

What might have changed by the way is the way I look upon my slave(-s).

I seek absolute loyalty, devotion, focus and dedication and not
necessarily a sexual relation.

To quote from some hard-core Mistresses (and I do know some); "the slave is not entitled to
amusing, joyful and comfortable sex and least of all with me, his
Mistress!"

I have a softer approach here as I say that if I have the following
choice of bed-partner: a sweet, soft and perfume-scenting young lady
vs. a shaking, sweating and whipped slave, than that choice is rather
obvious, is it not?

Besides, it appeals to me to treat my slave(-s) with a chilly
*distance*, and of course a Master and Gentleman is entitled to both
(e.g. a gorgeous lady and one or more devoted slaves)

I must say to the advantage of the slaves I have had the pleasure to
receive; most of them have been very good.

Intelligent, charming and pleasant people, definitely in my taste, and
very intellectually stimulating as well.

This makes me very happy I must say, as it makes me happy to talk and
exchange views with serious Mistresses (Lady Colleagues).

Dominance is not oriented towards race, age (a certain maturity is
desired though), nationality or even gender (even if gender is an
issue as described above, but perhaps not in the traditional sense), but merely towards
devotion, dedication and focus.

To be a bit vulgar; I wish to fuck the brain of the slave, not his arse!

What does intellectual capacity have to do with BDSM you might ask?

It IS BDSM, and if you do not understand why, we have nothing more to
talk about!

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Epilogue: Both Thomas and Jeanette are both dead today, she died before him.

Thomas left BDSM when his wife died; "I will never find a submissive
like her again!" and hence we also lost contact. Sad, but true.

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