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Hi, so the story so far goes... I discovered a frankly rather obsessive love for BDSM just this year when my friends took me to Violate in Glasgow. I got tarted up, expecting to just watch, but then I caught someone's eye and ended up getting tied up and spanked. Turns out, I'm incredibly submissive. It was a bit of a shock as such a stance completely goes against my extremely independent, feisty, feminist nature, but then that's also probably why I like it. I've always been a risk-taker, a boundary-pusher, and a little bit fucked up (in a good way). I like contradictions, weirdness and tangents, so why can't I be a submissive feminist?
So, what do I like best? It has to be that feeling of release when I finally actually give up and let him win. That internal sigh of relief. I see a scene as a battle of wills, and I dare anyone to try to beat me in one. I'm stubborn, persistent, mischevious, and gloriously happy and confident. Utmost respect for a man who makes me give up completely.
Now, for the housekeeping: I live in Edinburgh and have no plans to move. I also can't really afford to travel much. And obviously I'd have to like, respect and fancy my dom, but I'm not currently looking for anything more than play-partners. Also, I'm bisexual but only looking for a male dom, not female (although I'm not averse to a couple with another submissive female in play, assuming I fancied her too).
For me, most of this is about pushing things to the extreme. I want to be titillated, not just beaten. And I want to form a fun relationship that floats both boats, so to speak.
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