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I am excited by power. The greater your surrender – the greater you make my power. I believe in clearly communicated limits to create safety. But for a woman to offer herself to me completely and without limit would be an incredible gift. If I know that it is your greatest pleasure to serve, then I am freed to ask for exactly what I desire. Does the idea of such surrender excite you as deeply as the idea of having such power excites me? How far are you ready to stretch?

I retired (from a career directing biopharmaceutical development) to focus on things I enjoy -- crafts (ceramics, metal jewelry, leather and glasswork), aerial dance, musical theater, hypnotism, travel and BD/sex. I am physically active (with hiking, swimming, Pilates, and still sometimes trapeze), regularly attend theater and dance showings, and enjoy occasional adventure travel (kayaking, scuba, surfing). I enjoy exploring questions like “what is it possible to know?” A fun date might include a hike followed by extended BDSM play; or dinner, flirting and theater followed by going to bed and waking up to a morning of physical intimacy.

I have a strong dominant side and appreciate the clarity that comes to a relationship where roles are well established and communicated (eventually through a written contract). I have taken classes (through QSM, Society of Janus, SunriseCenter, MoreUniversity), but I have learned the most through my ongoing relationships. My excitement comes in seeing my partner stretch to surrender to my will, and through her expressions of delight with what we share.

I enjoy play, but ultimately, I am looking for a relationship of growing depth. I seek a woman who is submissive, but not passive; who is accomplished in the world and contributes her creativity as well as her obedience; a woman/muse who can inspire and surprise; a woman who brings skills and resources to processing the issues that arise in a relationship; one who will make herself vulnerable by exposing her inner desires and fears; a woman who desires to commit all of her skills to my service. If she ever perceives a requested “stretch” as too great, she takes that as an opportunity to ask me for help (to collaborate, rather than resisting or retreating). And I would like her to stretch me too -- expanding my interests by sharing those things that excite her in the world.

It would be great if you are able to actively participate in the full range of my interests, but that is not essential. If you are of a cheerful nature, enjoy intellectual discourse, are drawn to play with intensity, and if you love to share in learning; then we likely have a good basis to begin an exploration.

I am a SWM, 61, 5’7” and slim, located in the San Francisco east bay. I look forward to hearing from you.

John

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SophieQUK
 
 Age: 37
 Roma, Italia