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It truely is, a hard thing, to serve another. It is something I enjoy. The smile on their face, when they are simply enjoying and loving the moment. When my Domme is happy, I am happy. Every Domme I've been around, has been an amazing person. I do not view a future Domme, against the ones in the past. The future Domme, must be herself, as I will be thinking on every part of her.
There are moments I am submissive, and moments I have to be dominant. NO ONE, not even Dommes, can remain 100% Dominant. They would simply break down mentally and emotionally. Same with male doms. No, I do not have to be dominant in bed, but I could be (and often am), when I feel a Domme would be better served by certain actions, then simply being docile.
Apart from what you could find in my profile, I tend to be quite a personal person. I tend to think, and plan things out. I look out for my friends, and generally want others to live happy and exciting lives.
My philosophy on things: Most people will look outside and see its raining cats & dogs, and say "yuck, the weather sucks!". I will look at it, and say "its nice weather." Often, people will ask, what I would considered 'bad weather day'. I reply "When fire and brimestone, rain from the heavens!" Usually people nod and say "Yeah, that would suck!". Its not that I hold a positive outlook on things (but I can strive towards it, right?), but, an understanding in to the nature of things.
I'm looking for friends in the lifestyle. A Domme is a wonderful person to serve. But simply serving a Domme is not enough. Hearing her purr and even giggle when she is relaxed and happy, is the real treat. Doing things, to help make her life easier, relaxing, and more worth living. Its not just about the sex, but alot more. A good relationship times friendship and time to develop. I just wish I could find a friendly Domme...
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I was talking with a Domme for some time on here. This is a person I thought was quite an interesting woman. Maybe different interests, and yet, was very strongly opinionated. Meaning they view things in a very limited fashion. Now if you like someone, you might find you overlook some of the quirks and personality flaws; as we all have them.
To my knowledge, I was patient and kind towards them. I understood they had recieved numerous mails from guys behaving less than mature or classy. I never sent her photos or something that wasn't offensive. I sent her one thing, which is a private matter. It was nothing racy or awful.
This person complains how others treat her in a negative manner. She doesn't like how people perceive others, nor others perceive her. She doesn't like dominant-like submissive nor floor-mat submissive. A person with very specific tastes, but even will find something to complain about that as well.
So we had a discussion on 'what makes up art' or 'artistic quality'. She had a pretty simplistic viewpoint. I found this odd given she states she is an artist. I would think an artist would love the idea of sampling ideas, thoughts and techniques. To try something different from time to time with their work. Break out of that metaphorical box and go a totally different directly. I stated that artwork can be simple or complex. It could be something easy to understand or something requiring time to ponder to its fullest.
An so I was blocked by this person. In a way I can't say I'm not surprised. An in a way disappointed. This is a person that seemed really wonderful. But apparently is scared of something with a more in-depth thoughts on the subject matter. It wasn't my intention of putting her down. Much the opposite; give her thoughts on going in new directions. Have that someone say "hell ya, you can do this!". Sort of what a submissive SHOULD do for a Dominant.
As much as a Dominant can be a cheerleader for the submissive, so is the reverse. I have no ill will towards her. She has some tough things in life to handle. Wish her well and many good moments of happiness to her future! |
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Must say that went trying to contact to anyone on here, good manners does not seem to get me anywhere. Crafting a letter with an introduction, body and ending. Using the person's name just after 'dear' but before the coma. An simply express the information that I think would be good for the person I am trying to contact. I've heard directly and indirectly that Dommes become frustrated by all the one line texts sent their way. Or of those messes that are simply ignorant, selfish, or 'waste of time'.
How often do we have the ladies showing an example of a good letter that got their attention? Never! But they seem to post the negative stuff that got their attention. If you don't want that crap in your mail box, why post it to encourage it!?!?!?!?!?
An so, I believe I will keep writing letters to so many wonderful people, and never getting a response back from them. Sort of a trained response....
Oh well, if your reading this, I hope your having a good day! |
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