joannex

Male Submissive, 59, detroit area, Michigan

Male Switch, 49, Bloomington, Illinois

Transgender Submissive, 48, Dallas, Texas

Sit on the fence by all means............................... ...but make sure you know which side to come down on.

A further thought for the day, submission is not automatic and not therefore to be expected. It is given and a submissive can choose to submit or not. Co-operation is part of the D/s relationship, and if you fail to see that then you fail and are an unworthy Dom. infact in my opinion you are not qualified to be a Dom.

Today just refused to serve. that's it. if being a submissive means pretend and fantasy then Im in the wrong place.I'd say go fuck yourselves, but whats the point, you probably would.

I don't go for fancy cars or for diamond rings or movie stars or other material things what I do want most of all is a Master , that is all.

There are two ways to handle tense situations: you can either change them, or change the way you look at them. There is enlightenment to be had in changing the way you look at things

I enjoy tea breaks and pondered about this site whilst enjoying a warm cuppa.. many profiles seem to read  as quite aggressive posted by male doms . This appears to me there is no thought about how it may be perceived by a submissive female. Essentially there is a great difference between use of personal power, firm mental control and exuding authority, and a simplistic 'I am going to shout and bully you and hit you as hard as I can' approach. That may work for some, but the subtleties of the intricate and complex dynamic of power play is part of the tingle and turn on for a submissive. The anticipation, unpredictability , fear, tension,and the organisation shows the Dom is in complete control, including of himself. Brutal behaviour is acheivable by anyone , nor does this aggressive approach  show true concern for the welfare of their submissive, and does not relish the delights of her vulnerability. When I read such profiles, is it any wonder there are few genuine takers if this is the approach ? Any way, back to work, have fun x

Today I saw a rainbow and inside felt all peaceful and warm. Rainbows are so beautiful you should always enjoy the moment, as too quickly it has passed.

Leave it to others to be perfect, to be wonderful. Simply be content with what you are.

Joanne and hardnfair are freinds but unable to continue as Master and sub. Life sometimes gets in the way! Thank you for being my Master x A new chapter begins...

Big apologies to Sir J and other Doms, I can be too forward and speak when I shouldn't at times and do not mean to be disrespectful. I hope that my punishment and apology will suffice, as I can not bear the thought of always being gagged!x sorry, cunt x

Had a meeting yesterday with Master and another Dom, was a day full of new experiences and loved it all, (apart from pegs on my tongue!) and shall never look at a courgette the same again. Outdoor bondage was better tham I thought it would be, stripped naked and tied to a tree with my hands tied high above, and then between two trees spread legs... you can guess what went on, its been educational. Sore a little and slightly bruised today. The good thing about spurting in woods is you dont have to clean up your mess! which is a great advantage for a sub. Have wicked thoughts x

I hoped you liked the photos, but shall take them off again now, only share on rare occassions, so now will return to anonymity, which is how I like it ,as BDSM for me is not a beaty pageant and people who only wish to persue on looks alone are not worthy of a sub.Thats my view, because submissives can think you know!

Master is taking me to a meeting soon to be used by himself and another Dom.I think my training must be going well! I am excited by the prospect of being controlled and dominated by two at the same time. What a naughty sub am I? I expect they will punish me harshly for being so dirty. x

Well I plucked up the courage and went to shadowlands in Southampton. The dungeon was clean, discrete and well equipped, so had a wicked time. I recommend a visit, details on IC. Have a fun time, I did and was rightly punished for it! jo x

I am going to visit a dungeon on Friday, go me!!! I am getting brave or what? Bfn x

I have tied rope round my tits really tight and they are hard now and hurting..i am going to play with my nipples as I am really excited now.Just wanted to share that as I feel really naughty.(Bad girl)

oh I do love a good spanking, its very cathartic, AND my breasts got an initiation into breast bondage last week...I enjoyed it, but still lots to learn.bruised still...but so far loving it.

have been very busy and not able to chat with freinds, very sorry, but will check my emails if you want me to call you. been meeting a potential new Master, its early days but so far so good.hope youre all havin a wicked time x

today the weather is warm enough to spend time idling by the beach, going to pack a picnic and take my dog and get some relax time.

Yummy chocolate at easter mmmmmmmm

if the worlds a stage and we are mere players................. then learn your part. ( geesh! )

On behalf of Leona Lewis I think she is an exceptionally talented singer. There, rant over.

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