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I am an attractive, creative, intelligent 39 year- old Dom. I am degreed (Psychology and Philosophy) and have lived abroad in both Holland and England. I am not looking for a 24/7 D/S relationship, but being a patient and more along the lines of a sensual Dom, would enjoy playing on a regular basis with a submissive woman who may be somewhat new (or not) to submission and wants to explore different areas. I am open to discussion of many forms of play, except extreme edge play involving blood, excrement, objectification, degradation, weapons, or any form of physical injury. I play safe and sane and use safewords.
I am also particularly interested in bondage. Currently I am exploring designing rope dresses and bondage setups using a single length of rope. Once you are bound, I delight in teasing, spanking, and flogging, and if you are obedient, I might eventually let you orgasm.
I do not follow any particular systems (i.e.Gorean..etc) systems in D/S but I draw my approach more from Master/Student relationships such as Zen Buddhism. As such, I am a Dom who believes that the strongest words are often spoken in a whisper, and that "looking and talking like a Dom" has nothing at all to do with the core of D/S. For those who annoy or are disobedient, I need not raise my voice in anger...indifference and witholding of attention, affection, and pleasure are more my style. Combined with a keen sense of humor which is often very dry, and frequently very sarcastic. I will usually be more than a step or two ahead, and that is why I am a Dom and you are the Sub. We accept our roles in the world without superiority but instead with the respect that we cannot exist without the other,
My ideal submissive woman would have more than two neurons to rub together. She would be slightly shorter than me, slender to average build, enjoy dressing up to please a Dom (including fetishwear), and she would desire learning to become an unashamed and uninhibited sexual slut who would perform any action requested without argument. I also have a special place in my heart (and pants) for redheads or black-haired beauties.
Of course all of this must be built on mutual trust, so it starts with an email.
P.S. Those are two of my drawings behind me in the photo.
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