JJtopper

My thoughts

Intimacy is well beyond just the secret whispering and enjoyment of sexual desires.

It's about sharing our feelings and concerns and doubts, and our most private thoughts that might embarrass or expose ourselves, and often give us that liberating nervousness to tell it. It can be wanting to know yourself enough, to sometimes let another person discover it for you. 
It’s always best, within that wonderful state of complete trust.

But sometimes intimacy can be used to foster that trust, and give your mate the opportunity to show themselves as honorable and trustworthy.

It’s about self-disclosure, and choosing to be vulnerable.  The courage to risk and reveal those barest emotions and feelings at your very core, knowing that your lover will Understand, Appreciate, and Accept.

When you trust your lover with your true wants and desires, and hurts and pain and faults and failures, and even shame,  you give them the chance to share and accept all that you are,  and to approve of,  and deeply cherish you.

Maybe some haven’t felt it, and it might take a little effort to start it,

but it’s well worth the effort and journey.
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Love
Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without.

If you don't start with that, what will you end up with. ?

Fall head over heels.  Find someone you can love like crazy, and who'll love you the same way back.

And how do you find him or her.?  

Forget your head and listen to your heart.   

Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back.
You have to try.