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Dominant Couple, 60, Bristol.....ish
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About JJDomBhndBluEyes
I have been active in the lifestyle for over 25 years.
I realized late in life that I am a natural born Dominant in need of a submissive woman. It is true I am married but it is an open and vanilla marriage. I have sadistic tendencies with few limits, however I do not have to find a masochist in order to be fulfilled. I am very open minded regarding alternative activities, will try most anything once. I enjoy semi-public activities, outdoor sexual or BDS&M activities and more. I can best be described as a sensual Dom, applying a mix of sexuality, sensuality and pain to enhance my subs experience.
I am also an accomplished teacher, mentor, and trainer of new subs. I enjoy seeing a new submissive discover herself, because I am attached, you could say I run a catch and release program for new subs. I attempt to get to know you and your needs first before any play begins. I have used contracts if that is your desire as well as safe words.
I still work full time as a mechanical/civil engineer, software engineer and computer systems manager for a small company in San Diego. Being married does have its challenges when doming someone but I do have the freedom to go about and pursue my needs as a Dom unencumbered by drama.
I am happy to answer any questions regarding my status and availability. I am a night owl, I tend work too much but not as much as I did in my past. I love to go to dinners, movies and try to pursue skills as in Shibari (Japanese Rope Art), bondage, flogging as well as erotic photography.
Although I do think of D/s often, nearly every day, I am not a full time 24/7 Dom. I grew into the lifestyle over 20 years ago, became very active 16 years ago so I have my roots in a vanilla life with work, friends, children, responsibilities etc.
Currently, I am not active in the local D/s, BDSM community but I would very much like that to change that with the right "partner in crime" and female submissive.
For those female subs in my age range, I have noticed many are looking for that special someone to live out their life with. I have come to realize through hard learned experience that I am not going to leave my wife. There are bonds between she and I that transcend love. They have been forged by over 50 years of passion, shared life experiences and more, far more than can be explained here. However, for the past 5 years, the sensual aspects, passion we use to have and our intimate lives are non-existent. There are many reasons which we can discuss once we get to know each other.
I can have an LTR D/s relationship but if you are looking for your special man/Dom/Master/Soul Mate to live with for the rest of your life, be advised I am taken and offer no promise or hope of becoming someone else's life partner.
I can tell you I have had such relationships with a variety of women and ages. My relationships are generally long term lasting on the order of 2, 5, and 9 years, sometimes overlapping and polyamory in nature, vanilla and D/s with some BDS&M mixed in. In addition, we can go to dinners, movies etc. as long as we are somewhat discrete for business reasons.
You will find I am also a good friend, gentleman and mentor but there are personal family relationships that will take priority.
If you are looking for a no strings relationship, I am fine with that but in my experience, emotions eventually do develop. I can handle falling in love, falling out of love etc. But will not tolerate dishonesty or behind the back drama.
I am a realist and as such I know I will get very few, if any responses because of my age and situation. But, I know that if a woman does respond that she will have a pretty good understanding of what I am and what she is, two souls, with deep rooted needs to use and be used and can accept each other for who we are and enjoy each other for as long as we can with no preconditions, misconceptions or expectations beyond what may come.
But, enough about me, please if you have made it this far, and still interested to go on, take the time to drop me an email and let us see what we can accomplish together. We can do so over dinner, lunch or any other non-threatening activity.
I am looking for someone new or experienced to the lifestyle that may be in a similar situation as I and has a strong desire to explore her submissive side. A woman 18 to 66 years old, height and weight proportionate, is open minded for new experiences and is sincere in her need to explore true submission.
Also, any woman that has experience and would enjoy a different perspective and is willing to explore new experiences "together".
A masochist is a plus, very, very, very open minded individual is a major plus. But above all, possessing a sincere attitude and desire to serve, willingness to learn, desire to grow as a sub or slave and a willingness to explore sensuality along the way are most desirable qualities.
After all, the mind is the most sensual organ in the body.
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