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Male Dominant, 26, El Paso, Texas
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About JimmySlattery
I'm a dominant man in Vancouver, B.C. (this site doesn't do provinces) - witty, wicked, educated, charmingly vulgar, sentimental, loyal, presentable, smart, clean, and sane, or at least functional. Also modest.
I'm not interested in abusing women, physically or emotionally. I believe that in a large sense it's about me giving someone what they want and need, and their permission to do so is an honour. Their trust in me is a great compliment - I will do my best to live up to the trust and regard they have shown me. I do not believe I am superior, only that I have found my role and my honest self, and it naturally complements a submissive woman. With her we can both be the people we really are. I make no pretensions of infallibility and will surely make many mistakes of all kinds as I learn. I will not make mistakes with safety through arrogance and will not pretend to know what I don't.
I am generally a pretty nice guy, very oral, with a love of toys, clamps, restraints, blindfolds, forced orgasms, . It seems to me that we all invent this as we go along, depending on who we're doing it with.
I've thought long and hard about why I love this so much and wanted to do it again. If you want to know my conclusions, please ask.
I believe sex should be sloppy, dirty, fun, thrilling and leave most of the sheets on the floor in need of washing. It should also frighten the cat. Ideally, there should be equal parts sweat, screams and laughter. All at the same time if possible.
I think Lou Reed got it right: "No kinds of love are better than others."
I'm insistent on the most honest discussion of what we're about that we're capable of - maybe not as honest as we can become, but we will have to start somewhere and build on that. I will need to prove to you that your pleasure and safety is most important to me, and rather than an imposition of my will it's really about you and what you want. Giving that is pleasurable to me, and the more you help me understand your needs the more I can satisfy them. I want to grow too - this is a trip we're taking together. I have no idea what my limits are but I'm interested to find out. I'm open to NSA meetings but also looking for a long-term relationship with the right woman.
This is quite lengthy, but I'm sure I've left many things out. Please contact me with any questions and I will answer them as well as I can.
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