Wow where do I begin, I just turned the big 4 0 and I realized I have never did any thing exciting in my life. I would love to meet some interesting people but I am nervous and shy and I am worried my family and friends will find out that in I am interested in kinky sex. I am married, and I hope people understand that. I am considered to be attractive and I am what you would call a gym freak. I do not want to meet heaps of people but just that special person , who understands it is not easy cheating . in other words, I want to experience some sexual excitement but I am not going to risk my marriage for it.