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NekoDragon

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SINGLE MEN:  READ THE BOTTOM OF THE PROFILE BEFORE YOU E-MAIL ME!  I just unblocked men again, don't make me reblock them!

COUPLES:  Please do the same thing.   The wife's not interested in a second man.   Tis best to be up-front with that.

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I'm actually part of a couple, so if you are put off by that, head to the next entry.   Bisexual women who are looking for a girl to pamper and be pampered by, get in touch with me, and I'll get you in touch with my wife.

I myself am extremely vanilla.    I'm not submissive as in prostrate myself before Her Highness, but I am a 'go with the flow' kind of guy.   I usually don't push back until I'm sure I need to push, but heaven help you when and if I make that judgment. 

If you're interested in me for a dom position, I'm not trained for that.  If you're interested in me as a sub to you, as in 'lick my boots slave', then look elsewhere.  If you're looking for a guy to pamper you but no other women, look elsewhere as well.  If you're looking for a couple, you've come to the right place.

My wife's profile name is NekoDragon. 

And yes.  The picture is me.  

Scary, isn't it?   :-D

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Proper method for contacting me.

If I don't know you, I won't chat with you.    That's just how I roll.   If you want to contact me, then e-mail me.   Not quite as interactive, but not quite as intrusive either.   Once I get to know you, I may offer to add you to my ICQ/AIM contacts or my MSN contacts.  Don't expect that, however.    I'm a busy college student. 

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TO ALL SINGLE MEN:  
We're not interested in dating single men.    My wife's looking for a domme girlfriend, so that's what we're after.  You may feel free to contact us, but be aware of this fact.   Too many guys repeatedly asking 'Can I have sex with your girl' or 'will your girl domme me' will get all single men blocked again, and I'd like not to do that because I'm also looking for just plain friends.

To Couples:

If you're a couple, I should warn you that my wife is not interested in a second man in the bedroom.   She's not opposed to a woman playing with me, but in the interest of fairness, if there's a couple involved, I'm not going to play with the woman.   It'll just have to be a 'girls thing'.  

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10/10/2009 12:47:45 AM
OK, I logged in tonight and saw at the top of my list a profile belonging to a so-called '18 year old dominant woman' who was looking for 'pay piggies' or 'sugar daddies' because she's a 'poor college girl who deserves to be pampered'.   And to top it all off, in ALL CAPS on her profile is a warning not to tell her what to do because 'that's not how it works'.

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Talk about transparent.

I have a few questions:

Are there men out there who list themselves as dominant and insist that their potential sub girls shower them with money and things?

Are there men out there who actually get off on paying for some chick's beer, chips, and nights out on the town?

If there are men who like to throw their money at money-grubbing jerks like this woman, then more power to them.  Just be aware that you're likely to get nothing in return.

Moving right along...

9/24/2009 9:50:51 PM
Well, it's nearly Halloween again, and once again I'm thinking how neat it would be for my wife and I to go to a gothy nightclub on Halloween, meet a dominatrix there, and set up a threesome focused on the wife.   It's a neat dream, but each year nothing really happens on it.   Perhaps that's for the best.  

I also had to edit my profile.  Folks, if I don't know you, I'm shy by nature, so I'm not going to want to chat with you.  Besides, I've been on ICQ enough to have learned that getting a chat from some stranger I've never met usually leads to virii or pyramid schemes.  So, from here on out, you've been forewarned.  If you have some odd reason to want to talk to me, please, shoot off an e-mail.  You're much more likely to get a message from me than if you try to chat with me.

9/17/2009 12:14:42 PM
Come on guys.  At least READ the profile before you send me mail?   Do you honestly think that a 'gay couple of slaves' would be interesting to a heterosexual married 'switch' who actually points out in his profile that he's a vanilla looking for a domina for his wife?  Do you honestly think that he'd be interested in someone in the Philippines when he's in Colorado in the United States and money is tight? And even if he was a gay or bisexual master, do you think he'd go for a pair of slaves whose comment to him is 'helo master i am ur a new slave hope u have yahoo.!!!!!'?  

Heh.  So does that make me an official post-newbie on this site?   Getting a bad e-mail that shows that the sender wasn't reading the recipient's e-mail?    :-D    Let me go set my filters now.

7/21/2009 7:59:29 PM
MistressSage01 asks in her public journal why the same guys look at  her but don't reply to her.   I can't be sure as I'm not one of those guys, but I have my idea:   She's attractive, very photogenic, has some hot pics and a nice smile, and some tough requirements. 

From her profile:  

I am a Pro Domme, NOT a Lifestyle Mistress& regardless what your annual income IS am still very selective on whom I do accept . 

She's pretty selective about the 'clients' she will take.  The guys who look at her think she's way out of their league, perhaps?

This is about BDSM not Sex if you do not know the difference do not contact me.

And now the guys have had their fantasy, being dominated by a hot girl and then 'getting the goods' afterwards, trounced.

She's up front and forward about her expectations of men,  and alot of the men on this site are looking for a domina who will use them for a sex toy.   Since there are way more sex toy wanabes than dominas out there, the guys are reduced to finding hot women in sexy outfits to drool over while they imagine their hot sexy encounter.  

Good luck with your hunt, MistressSage01, and don't sweat the guys who keep visiting your profile.   They're likely not what you want anyway.  ;)

5/14/2009 1:18:16 PM
Ah, the end of another semester.   2 more and I'm done.  

It's been a tough semester.   My wife and I haven't been as intimate as we should, but she's had a tough semester herself, coming out mostly unscathed, but still wounded by one class in particular.    Jobs still suck and I'm still unemployed, but we'll take it as it comes.  

We'll have to see what happens this summer.

8/6/2008 10:17:03 PM
I'm pretty new at this, so don't expect much here.  I'm here for my wife, actually, who is NekoDragon.   She's the light of my life, and she's wanting a switch/light domme in a woman.   Nothing so extreme as a woman who insists her personal pronoun always be capitalized, but still, a lady that will take charge in the bedroom and guide and direct her.

She's got her profile, and she should have a few pics of herself coming up.   If you're into mysteriously sexy goth girls, definitely look her up.   

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 Age: 28
 London, United Kingdom