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JhaydedLily

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JhaydedLily - Female Submissive, Modesto California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About JhaydedLily

"Live by what you think, not by what you've been told."

I am here out of curiousity of who else I might find here. This is not the first time I have been on CollarMe, and I have even met a couple great people. So, here I am again.

I like to think of myself as mostly normal. I am a fun loving, sarcastic, creative, intelligent girl. I don't stand out in a crowd, too much. I am a full time student in the medical field. My life does not revolve around BDSM. I have real life interests and hobbies.

To be honest, I am not 100% sure what I am looking for. Hit me up and lets see what happens. I can not relocate.

I'm sure I will update this when I am not feeling so lazy.
So is it at all possible to connect with someone off a site like this without having sex with them first?  Because I'm not that kind of girl, and I refuse to be.  And if that makes me less of a "submissive" then fine. So be it, whatever. I am not here looking to get laid, but it seems 99% of the site is.  Where is the other 1%.  Thats who I want to meet.
I sadly was not clever enough to come up with this one, but I fell over reading it when I found it in my email box.  Props to the man who feels this way....

"I'm not a big man.  But to me, McCain is a very mean-spirited, bitter little man, an SOB, and a political prostitute!"

hehe
McCain is going down. I have the beer ready to ease the pain of listening to him speak.

17 min till the debate. Oooooo

Who are you voting for, and WHY?

For the record...
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Yes age matters to me. I am 32. A Ds relationship, for me, is no different that a 'regular' one. Somewhere in the realm of 30 and 40. Please. Location matters too.

Just fyi. Thanks

I took this from my old profile~~~


My perspective on BDSM would be this.  Its more of who I am than a lifestyle.  I am who I am.  Its not a role I choose to play, it is not something I can turn on and off.  I think the man is the one who belongs in charge- but that does not give him the right to be a jerk about it.  It is a turn on to know I am pleasing the man who treats me great.  It is a game of give and take.  It is a trade off of two people deeply appreciating what each other have to give.  I am submissive because I want to be. And honestly, although it is who I am and I can not change that, I do not think it would be a turn on at all if I were forced to be submissive to someone I did not choose to be submissive to.
     

Because I am bored and sitting here trying desperately to avoid homework (and laundry), I am going to journal instead. I suppose a good place to start is with who I am.

I am quiet and outgoing. Yes, this combination is quite possible. I just mold to my environment, like a lizard I guess. Although my limbs will not grow back if lopped off, so let?s avoid trying that. Yes, lopping off limbs a hard limit for me, sorry guys. Do lizards actually mold to their environment, or would that just be a chameleon? Oh well, anyway. Some of my hobbies include music and photography. I also love to fish, camp, hike, and generally anything else in the outdoors.  Also I am a full time student, and I bust my ass for the grades I get. I am proud of how far I have come and plan to continue to make that one of my up most priorities. By telling you (who ever you are reading this) you may now begin to see I am something of the human descent just like you... I would hope.  :)

I am loyal and honest. And always ask the same in return. Just because I am submissive, that does not give anyone the right to treat me like garbage. Of course, unless that is something agreed upon in advance. Hah.  Kidding. I am a real person, please respect that, or do not expect my respect.

I have heard a lot about the fakes and games on CM, but I have somehow been lucky enough to avoid it. Maybe because I will respond to 1 out of 100 emails, who knows.

 

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