I am 35 years old. I am submissive, and I am kinky as hell. I used to think that I had to give up a power based relationship to live a “regular” life, however I’ve recently made changes in my life to make this a reality. I am separated from my husband, and am seeking a divorce. I am not interested in speaking to anyone who is married, or who wants to get “freaky” on the side. I’m not looking for a friend with benefits either. I already have one of those. I AM looking for someone to spend my life with. I AM looking for someone to engage in a power based relationship – a top of course.
About me:
I like to think that I'm a rather intelligent woman, have a decent sense of humor, have pretty good common sense and am very down to earth.
I am very adventurous and dead sexay in my head. I guess the term for me is Big and Beautiful (ha ha) I'm working to mesh the two (ie I want my body to match my sexy brain!!) I love to kiss.. and, well, I like to do anything oral.
I own my own company in a very conservative industry, so I don’t have photos online. I can share some later, but NOT first thing, so please don’t even ask.
About you:
I’m looking for my best friend, my lover, someone who is excited about life. He will be strong enough to control me, kind enough to understand me, and secure and confident enough to push me to my limits with compassion and understanding.
He will not smoke, will be drug free, and he will be disease free.
He is not afraid to be demanding, but will understands that as a mother my children come before anything else (note: I’m not one of those crazy “I live to be a mother” people, but priorities do exist).
He will not hesitate to give me direction either together or apart, as a reminder of who’s boss.
He is into this lifestyle because he feels the need to control someone, but who is also a kind person, maybe even a bit of a romantic. He loves sex, loves control, and truly gets off on my submission. He isn't doing this because it turns me on, or not only because of that, but because it turns him on as well.
He is looking instead for someone who knows her own self worth, and he respects that.
He realizes that I’m new at this, but that I am willing and eager to learn. He will realize that I am maybe a little sassy, and that I have some shit to give.. and do give it because at this point its habit..but my ideal person won’t put up with it.
He will understand that He will EARN my trust, will EARN my loyalty and will DESERVE my submission by virtue of who he is.
He will live in the Detroit metro area, and will realize that I am in need of intense training, and will be ready to administer that training.
He will recognize that I am a larger woman, but that I am working on that. I am open to pulling D/s into my weight loss and exercise program. I am willing to be given goals, and I am willing to have my Master administer punishment for not meeting those goals, or use positive reinforcement for meeting them.
Finally, he will realize that while I am ready to explore my submissive soul to someone, I do not have a financially strong life right now, and that expenses MUST be kept to an absolute minimum.
If you are this person, please feel free to contact me… I’d love to talk to you more.
