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| Where to start? Well i am 23 years old, a college grad, and a life loving person. i have little experience with bdsm. i had a Dom but broke up due to distance so still lacking some experience. i am looking for a Dom that is patient, nurturing, protective, a friend, caring, and understanding. On the other hand i need a Dom that is well, of course, dominate. He should also be good with control, demand obedience, know how to push my limits, and know how to give a good spanking. ;) i hate "Doms" that assume you are suppose to drop your panties bc you are in the lifestyle. i am a female and i still like to get treated with one. And any guy still needs to court the girl i believe. i believe submission needs to be earned through trust and respect. i can not submit to someone that i feel doesn't deserve it.
Although i am a sub that does not mean i am a doormat. If i feel i am getting treated unfairly i will tell you. i still have hopes, dreams, and goals to accomplish...so my whole life isn't going to be dedicated only to bdsm. i love to hang out with friends, have some drinks socially, laugh, watch movies, write, dance, or just chill at home. i need the connection between a Dom and his sub. i find it to be so precious and its a connection that i can not get in a vanilla relationship.
And although i do love a good spanking ;) i love to hold hands, receive sweet kisses, and cuddle (yes i am a hopeless romantic-but with all those Disney movies poisoning my mind of a 'happily ever after' how could i not lol). So i guess i want the best of both worlds. i am just hoping i can find what i am looking for. i am ready to serve and submit, and i hope my future Dom is out there, ready to protect and care for me
Limits: scat, animals, blood, needles, and any extreme pain...i can handle some but nothing too brutal like branding. It also depends on the Dom. If i find him worthy enough i am willing to give up my comfort for a bit to please Him
And please do not ask for a picture right off the bat. It's gonna take some trust to get that out of me, but trust me i'm not too bad on the eyes ;)
Oh and i am african american...if that is a problem for you then politely fuck off! ;)
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