JessicaBrooke

FAQ/General response to frequent comments:

Q: Do you like older men?

A: I find that I am typically a bit further in my life than the young men close to my age. More often than not, I date men between 25-35. Although I enjoy chatting with older Dom's now and then for advice and ideas, I am not looking to be more than friends with anyone who is in their 40s+.

Q: How long have you known you were submissive?
A: I've known since I was a little girl. I've always known that something about me was "off" and a little different. Bettie Paige was the woman who gave me the confidence to experiment with different things. As I've gotten older I've come to love the lifestyle more and more.

Q: When it comes to kink, what are you into?
A: A few things I enjoy include, collars, leashes, bondage with rope, gags, slapping, spanking, spitting, orgasm denial and control, obedience and following commands, hair pulling, etc. I have a very long list. If I feel comfortable with you, I am willing to go into more depth about my interests and maybe we can even compare notes.

Q: What do you want?
A: I love the idea of a functional '1950s' household. I am looking for someone who can blend vanilla and kink. There are ways to be a Dom without being sexual. A man who can balance a blend of both would be a dream come true. I'm in no rush, because I don't believe these things happen over night. I want to meet someone who can be a friend, Dom, and lover.  On CM, I am looking to chat with people who think the way I do and maybe one day I'll bump into the right Sir.

"Nice tits"
-Thanks. Although you lack creativity, I am glad you think so.

"Wanna see my big cock?"

-Please don't send me a picture of your wiener. You'll know if I want to see it, chances are, I don't.

"I own you now, slut, girl, etc."
-Thank you for your interest, but regrettably, the answer is no.

Have a lovely day. ;)

Hey Collar Me!
  Thanks again for all of the wonderful feedback and advice you folks have been sending me. I really appreciate the time many of you have taken in responding to me. I haven't been feeling well lately, so I appologize for neglecting to respond to all of your lovely messages.

  I've been trying to make a video post, but I have been experiencing some technical difficulties that are making me very frustrated! If any of you have some advice it would be appreciated. :)
 When I record the video, I can see myself being recorded and the sound is also working, but when I view the video on Collar Me, all I get is really poor audio and no visual at all. Any tips or tricks?

I'll save all my juicy discussion topics until the video is up and running. ;)

Hope all is well,

Ms JessicaBrooke

Wow! Thanks to everyone here at Collar Me for your warm welcome!

I am delighted and flattered by all of your gracious compliments and helpful tips while learning to navigate the site. It's so refreshing to see so many different people who share my love and interest for the lifestyle. Cheers to you!

I wanted to begin my journal on Collar Me by commenting on a few things I've seen and heard over the past few days since joining the site.

First and foremost, why do so many Masters/Doms think Subs/Slaves are attracted to them when they open with something along the lines of, "I own you. You're mine and you will do everything I say because I say it. I am your Master now."? Woaaaah there skip, pump the brakes.

As it says on my profile, and as I say on a regular basis, I live to please and serve. I mean what I say and there is nothing more gratifying than when I please my Master. However, just because you are a Dom, it doesn’t mean you own me.

Master is a term reserved for one (or more, if you enjoy poly relationships), individual who you hold in the highest regard. It bothers me a lot when people use this term loosely. I will call you Sir, or Ma'am out of respect, as it's a courtesy one should give to everyone.

I guess the point I'm getting at is, you don't obtain my respect or obedience simply because you tell me to. The bond between a Master and sub is something very special, and it shouldn't be an instant commitment until you truly give all of yourself to that person.

What do YOU think?

 My next question is, why do Doms/Masters think that a sub will instantly do as they say because a D/s is disrespectful? Maybe it's just me- but the thought of being a 'fuck toy' just doesn't cut it. It goes hand in hand with what I mentioned earlier in this entry. Simply because you'd like for me to do everything you say... doesn't mean I will. Knowing that I am a prized possession in his eyes, instead of a convenient toy only makes my desire to please him stronger.

 My point: I've gotten several messages all about how little my worth is because I am a sub. Don't get me wrong, I like to be taken down a peg or two during play and I like to be reminded that I am under my Master, however, I dont understand why so many men think that belittling and talking down to me from the first time we chat is going to make me respect/drawn to them?

What do YOU think?

Thanks for taking the time to read and hopefully respond!

Warm wishes to you and yours,

Ms. JessicaBrooke