jerseygirl40

Fear is two sides blade that can kill realtionship completely changing it from safe and sane bdsm realtionship where both sides are happy to abusive realtionship where the submissive obey not because she respect her Master but because she filled with...fear of his cruel punishment or how much he can put tear her down emotionally. No one can deny that the fear of displeasing the Master is required but it shouldn't be the kind of fear that stop her from taking any step a head, forbidding her to even try anything new because she is afraid of Him. When you look into her eyes and see them lowered to the ground not of respect to him but of how much she intimidated by him and afraid to even have any eye contact, When you see her body shaking because of how much abuse it get every time he gets angry or displeased to the degree she will search for someone else to protect her from the only person on earth who suppose to be protecting her from the whole wor...ld. the submissive gave you the gift of her submission hoping to find peace and safety within your domain, she is there to obey and love you out of respect and willingly want to please you always because you gave her care and compassion in same level you gave her discipline and guidance. She is not there to be intimidated by you to that degree, she is not there to have nightmares constantly of how much you abuse her, she is not there to suppress her dreams and wishes due to her constant fear of your reactions, she is not there because you abduct her... she is there because found you worthy enough to have her gift of submission and she was sure that you will keep it safe and will help her grow as both person and submissive. Don't let the most beautiful thing in her submission dies.. Embrace your submissive and conquer her fears and remove them.. Don't be the hurricane that will make her regret each second she spent with you .. Be her safe island in midst of the life tsunami. ~