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Hi everyone
I am looking for something rather unusual and I am hoping someone on this list will be able to help.
I am moving away to university in SC accross the country from my parents for my first year. I get good grades and practically never get in trouble, but I am nervous about being on my own without house rules and someone watching.
My parents were quite strict when it involved school or chores or things like that. What I guess I am looking for is a family who can take their place if I start to slip up with the new freedom. School is so important to me and I don't want to let it slide.
I really want someone who kind of knows what assignments of mine are due and check up on them, maybe to have me over to dinner and bring along how much i have done on my essay. To have to show test results and essay grades. Maybe to check in and see how organized my dorm room is. I wouldnt mind too to be invited when the family is going to an amusement park or anything.
I would respect both the mom and dad and would listen to whatever said, and also know if there was something serious that dad would be the one to take care of it.
I would hope the family understands that age isnt a concern if things start to slip and trusting you wouldnt be abusive, would expect to be punished whether by a lecture, scolding, sent to the corner, privileges taken away, grounding or if need be corporal punishment.
My only requirements are that it be a loving couple and have raised or currently raise kids in this kind of strict environment. This is without exception. The parents would also have to know that I do want to experience growing up with new freedom, but just with some guidelines and limits. Not control.
If you notice I didn't mention sex at all, and any messages even hinting at sex will be deleted with no response.
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