JDom83


jdom84 Male Dominant, 27	JDom80 Male Dominant, 40, Owensboro, Kentucky	Jdom88 Male Dominant, 22, Brisbane

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	About JDom83 Hello Please let me begin by saying that I am absolutely hopeless at writing these things! I must say that I have found my girl and thus am only looking for friendship only What am I looking for...hmmm, it is something I have considered long and hard but vocalising it (or in this case writing it) is still somewhat impossible. I think more than anything thing I am looking for someone to share my life with - I am not a bedroom dominant I am much more interested in the mental aspects of the lifestyle. Someone I can look after, cherish and of course send to the corner or spank if she is misbehaving. Someone with intelligence who can hold a conversation, someone to share a vanilla life on the outside with and a kinky one when we are alone. I am a friendly caring person so don't be shy to say hi

I've been doing quite a bit of thinking lately, about single life. I'm just going to say it, being single sucks. It is much better than being in the "wrong" relationship, but overall it isn't fun, I know some people thrive on their singleness, but that is not for me. However, being kinky and single is worse. Sure it is great that you have discovered your sexual self however, can that really exist if there is no one to share it with? What is a Dom without a sub, or sub without Dom. Sure the vanilla characteristics of the individuals do not change, but how can one be a Dominant when they have no one to dominate. Anyway I digress, a philosophical analysis of the lifestyle was not why I began typing this.

The reason I am writing this, is I want your feedback. What do you think the worst part of being single and kinky is? Is it the fact that to choose the right partner you have such a smaller group of people to choose from, or you can't just walk into any bar and try and find someone for a meaningful relationship there? Well my number one hate about being single and kinky is the "set-up", we all know about it, when a well meaning friend or family member decided you have been single for too long and decides that they are doing a good thing by introducing you to another single person they know. Sure some of my friends know about my kink and they don't even go there, but it isn't exactly something I go yelling about from rooftops. So do you come clean about your kink or do you keep fishing for excuses to avoid them, talk about a catch 22.

So fine people of Collarme, do tell, what is the one aspect of being single and kinky that you hate above all else?

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