I respect honesty. I can forgive or understand pretty much everything except deception. This also means being able to be honest with yourself.

I just spent a long time in a relationship denying the kinky side of being dominant. Turns out the important parts of being dominant don't get turned off so easily, so its time to embrace it.

I need someone to belong to me. I am very loyal, caring, and confident. I am also human though, I need good communication. It may seem like a paradox, but this type of thing makes for healthier relationships if they are done right.

Its a two way street, so don't bother if you think you aren't worth anything. I don't want a valueless gift.

I am not at all about the "scene". I am naturally dominant. I solve problems, I run things, and I make stuff happen. I just also enjoy a bunch of kinky stuff. I have experience doing pretty much everything in my kinks section, but am not into talking and sharing with other people about the "lifestyle". For me, the kinky BDSM aspects are an extension of a real relationship. Life needs to keep happening. I'll take care of it, and make you a part of it.

I am here because I am tired of dating vanilla people, and then moving on when the kink comes out.

I'm starting a new chapter of my life. New city, new business, and I need someone to take for the ride. I learned some hard lessons about who I am and what I need recently. It would be great to make a connection that could possibly grow into something more as I make this transition.

I'm interested in everything from text messaging to get to know you, to meeting for a drink/dinner, to taking complete control for an evening, and perhaps something more - it all depends on how we click.

I am traveling to and from Edmonton over the next few months as I set up a new business. If you are in the area, or are willing to relocate, contact me.

I am really tired of the bullshit scammers around here. No, I will not pay your rent while you get ready to "relocate". Responses that are obvious copy/paste loser traps will just be deleted. So will initial messages that include the words "sir" or "master"

The ability to carry on a conversation is important.

Someone who wants to explore their own needs would be a bonus.

So that locks out women with a humiliation kink. I can role play in the bedroom for a thrill, but out in the day to day world, you need to be able to carry on with life.