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Hello, everyone,

I am new to the boards and to this entire lifestyle; I've had a number of submissive fantasies in my life and have started to wonder if I might possibly live any of them out. I've been searching around for a good community of people, and I thought I might start here.

Thus, I'm a novice, so anyone who doesn't have the patience for that can stop reading and save some time. Now, for the second time-saving sentence: I'm a BBW. I know that there are a lot of people who are attracted to BBWs, but there are also a lot of poeple who aren't. If you aren't, then you probably won't be interested in me.

I'm curious about D/s more than S&M; I don't know how well I'd handle pain but have had some spanking fantasies. But most of my interest is about power exchange within a scene, not in a 24/7 relationship. I like the idea of being pushed by using psychological pressure rather than being physically coerced into something. I'm probably rather pedestrian in my fantasies; I'm not as risque as many people on the board.

I'm intelligent, articulate, and well-read. My most highly charged erogenous zone is my brain; my imagination can be remarkably vivid and has served to create a wealth of fantasies. I believe that D/s requires trust more than anything else; I'm not the kind of girl who can meet someone and get tied up within hours of our first encounter. But when you bring me to my knees, I guarantee that it will mean something. My mind has to be properly stimulated and relaxed before my body will ever respond. But when it responds, it really responds.

Anyway, I hope I didn't waste your time. If you'd like to help a newcomer find her way, then I'd appreciate a message.